Date ideas
Your new wedding rings mark the start of married life. The first nights together give you time to adjust and be close. These eight activities offer easy ways to spend that time. Two of them use your rings to create light touch. One uses a deck of cards to choose what happens next. The rest require nothing extra. All of them can be done in your bedroom. They focus on basic touch, talk, and movement. Try them at a pace that feels right for both of you. Check in with each other as you go.
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Action
Lie on your sides facing each other. Take turns asking one question at a time about the wedding day or your hopes for the future. Listen without interrupting. Keep your voices low.
Pro-Tip
Prepare a short list of questions on your phone before you get into bed so the talk flows easily.
Spicy Twist
Ask what type of touch they want right now as one of the questions.
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Action
Lie together without speaking for several minutes. Hold hands or rest your heads close. Reflect on the activities you tried. End the night by saying one thing you liked about the time together.
Pro-Tip
Turn the lights very low or off completely so your bodies can relax before sleep.
Spicy Twist
Add one final kiss before you separate to sleep.
Final Tip
These activities give you a place to start on your first nights as a married couple. Choose what feels comfortable and change anything that does not. Over time you will check what works best for the two of you.
Common Questions
Talk about the activity first. Say what you want to try and ask if they are interested. Start small and check in often during the activity.
Clear the space around your bed. Turn off your phones. Make sure the room is warm enough and you have privacy.
No. You can use a scarf from your closet as a blindfold. A regular deck of cards works for the games. Everything else uses just your hands and bodies.
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