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Your anniversary is a good time to spend with your partner in bed. Clear some space in the room. Turn the lights down low. Choose music you both like. These eight positions give you a range of choices from easy ones to ones that take more effort. Start by lying close to each other. Kiss on the neck and touch the skin slowly. Talk about what you like and what feels good. Move at a pace both of you enjoy. Check in often. This helps the night feel good and close for both.
Action
Lie on your back with knees bent and feet on the bed. Your partner gets between your legs and enters. Wrap your legs around their back. Rock your hips to match their moves. Hold hands or touch their chest. Keep the pace steady for as long as you want.
Pro-Tip
Look into their eyes while you do this. Talk about some good times from your year together. It adds to the moment.
Spicy Twist
Put a pillow under your hips for better angle and feel.
Action
Lie on your side. Your partner lies behind you. Lift your top leg a little so they can enter from behind. Stay close and move together slowly. Reach back to touch them or hold their arm. This keeps things relaxed the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Good when you feel tired after a long day. Save your energy and stay in their arms the entire time.
Spicy Twist
Guide their hand to touch you in front while you move.
Action
Your partner lies on their back. Sit on top facing them and lower down. Put your hands on their chest for balance. Move up and down or in circles at your own speed. Lean down to kiss them when you want to.
Pro-Tip
You control the speed and depth here. Show what feels best for you by changing how you move.
Spicy Twist
Turn around to face their feet. They see your back and bottom.
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Action
Get on your hands and knees. Keep your hips high. Your partner kneels behind and holds your hips. They enter from the back. Push back against their moves. Keep your back arched the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Tell them how deep or fast to go. Change speeds to keep it interesting for both of you.
Spicy Twist
Touch yourself with one hand or ask for a light spank.
Action
Your partner sits with legs crossed on the bed. Sit on their lap facing them. Wrap your legs around their back. Hold each other and rock your hips together. Keep your arms around their neck or back.
Pro-Tip
Stay face to face the whole time. Breathe together and keep eye contact as you move.
Spicy Twist
Squeeze your muscles around them while you rock.
After dark
Action
Lie on your back. Put your legs straight up on your partner's shoulders. They kneel and enter while holding your legs. Hold your own ankles or thighs. Their moves go deep in this setup.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under your lower back. This makes it more comfortable for a longer time.
Spicy Twist
Pull your knees closer to your chest for a different angle.
After dark
Action
Your partner lies on their back. Sit on them facing their feet and lower down. Put your hands on their legs for leverage. Move in circles or up and down at the speed you like.
Pro-Tip
They can relax while you choose the movements and set the pace for both of you.
Spicy Twist
Lean back so they can reach around to touch you.
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Action
Stand and face each other. Lift one leg around their waist. They hold your leg or hip and enter. Lean against a wall for balance. Move together with short motions. Switch legs when you need to.
Pro-Tip
Try this after a shower. It adds energy right at the start of the night.
Spicy Twist
Lift both legs if you can. They hold you up against the wall.
Final Tip
Pick two or three positions to try. Mix the easy and harder ones. Stop if anything hurts. Hold each other after. Drink to more years together.
Common Questions
Stop and talk. Use your hands to move. Kiss while you change spots. Go slow until it feels right.
No. Start with basic ones. Add lube if it helps. Tell your partner what works and what does not.
Keep lights low. Play songs you like. Hold each other after. Focus on what feels good together.
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