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Sex Positions for Long Distance Reunions

Time apart makes the reunion special but also a bit uncertain. Your bodies need time to adjust to being close again. These positions offer practical ways to start touching and move together. They range from close and slow to more active. You do not need anything special besides your bed. Focus on what feels right in the moment. Check in with each other often. The time together is limited so make it count by staying attentive.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

You lie on your back with legs open. Your partner gets on top facing you. This allows full body contact and easy kissing. It is a safe way to start after time apart because you can see reactions and talk. Adjust your legs to change depth.

Pro-Tip

Place a pillow under your hips for better angle. This can make it more comfortable and change how it feels for both of you.

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Look into each other's eyes the whole time and tell them what you like.

2. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides with your partner behind you. They slide in from behind while hugging you. This is low energy and very close. Good for when you are tired from travel or just want to cuddle while having sex.

Pro-Tip

Keep your knees bent and back arched slightly. Use your free hand to hold their arm around you.

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Have them reach around to touch your front while moving slowly.

3. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

Your partner lies on their back. You straddle them and lower yourself down. You control the pace and angle by rocking or bouncing. This is useful after time apart because you decide what feels best for you.

Pro-Tip

Lean forward or back to hit different spots. Use their chest for support with your hands.

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Tease them by moving very slow then speeding up suddenly.

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4. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

Get on your hands and knees. Your partner comes from behind on their knees. They can hold your hips for rhythm. This position allows deeper movement and feels different after long separation. Keep your head down or turned to the side.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under your head and shoulders if the position strains your arms. Keep knees apart for stability.

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Arch your back more to change the sensation for them.

5. Chair Position ✨

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Action

Your partner sits on the edge of the bed. You sit on their lap facing them with legs wrapped around. This is very close and good for kissing. It works well for slower more connected sex after the wait.

Pro-Tip

Hold onto their shoulders or neck. Rock together instead of bouncing to keep balance.

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Whisper in their ear what you missed about them while you move.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

Stand facing each other near a wall. One lifts a leg while the other supports. They enter while holding you steady. This is good for the excitement of first seeing each other again after a trip.

Pro-Tip

Do it near a wall for extra support. Keep it short if it feels tiring on the legs.

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Lift the leg higher to allow deeper entry.

7. Side Saddle ✨

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Action

Your partner lies on their back. You sit sideways on them with one leg between theirs. This gives a unique angle and lets you grind instead of bounce. It is less common so it feels fresh for the reunion.

Pro-Tip

Use your hands for balance on their chest or the bed. Experiment with the exact angle.

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Have them hold your hips to guide the movement.