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Turn bedtime into a spa session with these relaxed positions. Slow moves and touches let you both unwind. No hard workouts, just easy pleasure and connection with your man. All at home.
Action
Lie on your back, legs a bit apart. Your man kneels between them and enters slow. He rubs your shoulders and breasts while thrusting gently. Keep hips lined up. Breathe deep together.
Pro-Tip
Take turns getting the massage. Builds closeness after a long day. Start with 10 minutes of rubs.
Spicy Twist
Tell him 'Rub deeper' in a sexy whisper to heat things up.
Action
Lie on sides, him behind you. He lifts your top leg a bit and slides in from back. Rock hips together slow. His hand strokes your front.
Pro-Tip
Perfect for mornings. Hold hands or kiss necks. Lets you whisper without face-to-face pressure.
Spicy Twist
Use a vibrating toy on your clit for extra waves.
Action
Sit facing each other, legs around his waist. He enters as you lean back on hands. Sway hips in circles. Lock eyes.
Pro-Tip
Breathe opposite: you in, he out. Builds trust. Good after stretches.
Spicy Twist
Blindfold one of you. Tease with light touches.
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Action
Do missionary. Slide a pillow under her hips. Raises pelvis for good angle. He leans in, hands by her sides. Thrust slow and deep.
Pro-Tip
Cuts back strain for longer play. Switch who gets the pillow. Hits G-spot better.
Spicy Twist
Drizzle oil on stomachs. Rub skin together slippery.
Action
He lies back, knees up. Straddle facing away, lean on his thighs. Grind in arches. He holds your back.
Pro-Tip
You set the speed for your pleasure. Talk about angles to peak together.
Spicy Twist
He gives light spanks as you move.
Action
Lie on sides facing each other. Drape your top leg over his hip. He enters and thrusts side to side. Hands roam free.
Pro-Tip
Gaze in eyes for closeness. Low effort, big feels. Switch which leg on top.
Spicy Twist
Nipple clamps add tingles while moving.
After dark
Action
Lie on back, lift hips in small bridge. He kneels and holds your hips. Enters with rocks. Stay relaxed.
Pro-Tip
Works pelvic muscles over time. Start small lift. Watch her signals.
Spicy Twist
Trail ice down backs for shivers.
Action
He sits against headboard, legs out. You straddle facing him. Put a pillow behind his back. Rock slow together.
Pro-Tip
Kiss long while at it. Builds tension. Great end to night.
Spicy Twist
Tease each other by hand first.
Final Tip
Test these out and find your go-tos. Add massages or twists for more fun. Relax deeper with your man tonight.
Common Questions
Spooning works best. Low effort and cozy for both.
A pillow in positions 4 and 8 helps angles. Others need nothing extra.
Try oils, blindfolds or light spanks from the spicy twists.
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