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Long-distance couple reconnecting intimately with supportive pillow in missionary variation.

Sexual Positions For Long Distance Couples

Long distance leaves you craving touch. Reunite in bed under soft sheets. Use these 8 positions to release tension and feel close again. All work at home.

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1. Missionary Position 🌶️

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Action

Lie face-to-face on the bed. She spreads her legs. He kneels between and enters slow. Rock hips together. Keep eyes locked. Hands stroke necks and backs. Build speed to last longer.

Pro-Tip

Stare into eyes to share missing each other. Breathe at the same time for tighter bond.

Spicy Twist

Slide a pillow under her hips. Hit deeper spots and go longer without tiring.

2. Spooning Position

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Action

Lie on sides with him behind her. She raises top leg. He slides in from rear. Move in slow waves. His arm wraps her waist.

Pro-Tip

Whisper call memories in her ear. Feels safe and pulls you together.

Spicy Twist

Grind hips in circles not straight in-out. Try a vibrating ring for teasing buzz.

3. Cowgirl Position 🌶️

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Action

He lies flat on back. She straddles facing him. Hands on his chest. Lowers down and rocks front to back. She picks fast or slow.

Pro-Tip

She leads to feel strong again. Say what you craved most during distance.

Spicy Twist

She leans back for better G-spot rub. Blindfold him to amp up fantasy feels.

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4. Lotus Position 🌶️

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Action

He sits legs crossed. She faces him and straddles wrapping legs at his waist. Arms around necks. Rock hips close together.

Pro-Tip

Gaze deep while moving. Chat plans to meet soon for stronger tie.

Spicy Twist

Pulse pelvic squeezes in time. Warm lube adds slick heat to every grind.

5. Standing Wall Position 🌶️

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Action

Face wall together. She hooks one leg on his hip. He lifts her slight and thrusts up. Grip shoulders tight.

Pro-Tip

Make it fast like reunion hugs. Share ideas on what you want for the next visit.

Spicy Twist

Turn her back to wall legs over his arms. Thrust hard for release.

6. Reverse Cowgirl 🌶️

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Action

He lies back. She climbs on facing away. Hands brace his thighs. Bounce up-down or grind side to side.

Pro-Tip

View matches your texts. Tell her how hot she looks to build her up.

Spicy Twist

She reaches back rubs his perineum. Anal beads add back fun if ready.

7. Doggy Style 🌶️

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Action

She kneels hands and knees. He kneels behind enters deep. Hands grip hips. She arches back for fit.

Pro-Tip

Go raw after holding back. Ask her speed likes to match moves.

Spicy Twist

Pillow under her belly cushions long hard rounds.

8. Position 🌶️

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Action

Lie head to toe. Mouths at each others genitals. Lick suck while hands roam thighs butts. Switch who leads.

Pro-Tip

Give take equal after solo time. Moan likes to voice wants.

Spicy Twist

Trail ice cubes on skin then lick warm. Sharpens all feels from apart time.

Final Tip

Grab two or three for your next reunion. Switch them up all weekend long. Chat about what worked to plan better times when apart. Keeps the fire hot.

Common Questions

Which positions build the most eye contact?

Try missionary position or lotus position. Lock eyes while rocking hips to share feelings without words.

Do these positions need any props or toys?

No gear needed for basics. A pillow helps in two spots for comfort. Add lube or a ring if you want.

How do I add emotion to these positions?

Whisper what you missed on calls. Hold hands or stroke hair during moves. Talk after about what felt best.

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