Date ideas
An anniversary gives you a reason to spend extra time together in bed. These eight sex positions give you ideas to try. They range from simple and close to ones with more movement. All of them can be done in your bedroom. Talk to your partner about which ones interest you. Go at your own pace. You might use a pillow under the hips for better angles in some. The point is to have a good time without pressure.
Action
One partner lies on their back. The other lies on top facing them. You can kiss and look at each other easily. Move your hips together in a slow rhythm. This position works for most people and lets you stay close the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Use your hands to guide your partner's hips or touch their back during the act. This helps you both stay in sync.
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Tell your partner what you like while you do it.
Action
Both partners lie on their sides facing the same way. The person behind enters the other from that position. It is easy to do and feels very intimate because your bodies touch along their length.
Pro-Tip
The front partner can reach down to touch themselves at the same time if they want.
Spicy Twist
Stay in this position for an extended time without rushing to finish.
Action
Sit on the bed facing your partner with your legs wrapped around each other. Rock back and forth instead of using big movements. This lets you hold each other and see facial expressions the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Use your arms around each other to support and control the motion together.
Spicy Twist
Kiss necks and faces while you rock together slowly.
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Stand facing each other. One partner can lift a leg or lean against the wall or bed. The other supports them while entering. This works best near a surface for balance if heights are different.
Pro-Tip
Do it near the bed so you can switch to lying down if legs get tired.
Spicy Twist
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Action
One partner lies on their back. The other straddles them facing forward and controls the movement with their hips. The person on bottom can hold hips or touch the chest of the partner on top.
Pro-Tip
The bottom partner can use their hands to help stimulate the top partner.
Spicy Twist
Switch who is on top halfway through the session.
Action
One partner gets on all fours or lies flat on their stomach. The other enters from behind while on their knees. You can adjust how high the hips are for different sensations and depth.
Pro-Tip
Put a pillow under the hips of the person in front to change the height and angle.
Spicy Twist
The person in back can lean forward to kiss the neck and back.
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Action
Lie head to toe so each person's mouth reaches the other's genitals. You can give and receive oral sex at the same time. Adjust positions until both feel comfortable without straining necks.
Pro-Tip
Use a pillow under your head or side for better neck support if needed.
Spicy Twist
Compete to see who can get the stronger reaction from the other.
Action
One partner lies on their back and raises their hips. The other kneels between the legs to enter. The raised partner can place their legs on the partner's shoulders for extra support.
Pro-Tip
Hold onto your partner's legs to create better leverage and control.
Spicy Twist
Keep looking at each other during the movements.
Final Tip
Pick a few of these positions to try on your anniversary. The night works best when you both feel relaxed. Take breaks to talk or laugh together.
Common Questions
They give you a reason to try something different on a meaningful night. It is a way to celebrate another year by focusing on physical closeness.
Start slow and stop if anything hurts. Make sure you can communicate clearly with your partner. Use lube if needed and keep positions stable.
Keep touching or kissing as you change. Laugh if it feels awkward. Have a few in mind so you can move to the next one easily.
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