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Sex Positions for Your Anniversary

Anniversaries give you a chance to slow down and enjoy time together in bed. These eight sex positions provide options for different moods and energy levels. They use basic movements that most couples know. A pillow can help with angles in one or two of them. Pick one or try a few throughout the night. Keep water nearby and go at a pace you both like.

1. Improve Missionary ✨

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Action

Lie on your back in missionary. Place a pillow under your hips. Your partner gets on top facing you. The lift changes the entry angle. Keep eye contact and kiss as you move together slowly. Talk about what feels good as you go.

Pro-Tip

Use a firm pillow to maintain the height during movement. Test the height before you get started to make sure it is right.

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Pull your knees toward your shoulders for deeper access. This changes the feeling right away.

2. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides facing the same way with your partner behind. They enter from this position. You can touch easily and move at a gentle pace. Stay in it as long as you want without getting tired.

Pro-Tip

Press your bodies close for more contact. Bend your knees if it helps the fit.

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Reach around to touch their front while moving. This adds extra stimulation.

3. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

Straddle your partner while they lie on their back facing you. Set the speed and depth of movement. Look at each other and use hands to touch. Adjust by leaning forward or backward.

Pro-Tip

Use your thighs to control the motion carefully. Place hands on their chest for balance.

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Add a circular rocking motion along with up and down movements.

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4. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

Get on your hands and knees as your partner enters from behind. This allows for deeper movement. They can hold your hips to guide the rhythm. Check in to make sure it works for both.

Pro-Tip

Keep movements controlled rather than fast at the start. Adjust your height by spreading knees.

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Do it near a mirror to see the action from another view.

5. Lotus Sit ✨

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Action

Sit facing each other with legs wrapped around one another. Rock together instead of using big thrusts. This requires some flexibility. Use your arms to hold each other steady.

Pro-Tip

Sit on the edge of the bed if floor sitting is hard. This makes it easier to get into position.

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Synchronize your breathing as you move together for a minute or two.

6. Reverse on Top 🌶️

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Action

Face away while straddling your partner. The new angle hits different areas. They get a good view of your back and can touch you. You still direct most of the action.

Pro-Tip

Lean forward to change the angle. Use hands on their legs for support.

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Have them sit up to hold you from behind in this pose.

7. Standing Hold 🌶️

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Action

Stand facing each other. Wrap one leg around them. Use a wall for balance and support. The position works best when heights match well. Move carefully to avoid slips.

Pro-Tip

Bend knees slightly for better stability and control. Make sure you have good footing.

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Try it under running water if your shower is suitable.

8. Lap Sit ✨

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Action

Sit in a chair as your partner lowers onto your lap facing you. Hold each other and move your hips in unison. It is similar to lotus but easier on the legs. Kiss and touch freely.

Pro-Tip

Keep feet planted firmly on the ground for balance. Choose a chair at the right height.

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Lean back while holding on for a new angle.

Final Tip

These positions offer a range of ways to celebrate your anniversary in bed. Focus on what feels good rather than performing. Talk openly about preferences both before and during. The time spent together matters more than any specific move.

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