Date ideas
You just got married and now share a bed every night. These eight positions give you specific moves to try. Some keep you looking at each other. Some let you hold from behind or sit together. Start slow. Tell your partner if the angle feels wrong. A pillow under the hips works in a couple of them. Stop and talk about it after. You will figure out what each of you likes after a few tries. Do not rush. Some nights you may only do one position.
Action
She lies on her back. Keep your knees bent and feet flat. He gets between your legs facing you. He leans on his elbows. Move your hips at the same time. Look at each other.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under her hips to lift them up. This changes the angle. Check in every minute or two to see if it feels good.
Spicy Twist
She puts her legs on his shoulders. He moves his hips in small circles.
Action
Lie on your sides with both of you facing the same direction. He gets right behind her. She lifts her top leg a bit. He enters from behind. Hold her hip with one hand.
Pro-Tip
This position works when you are tired. You can stay in it for a long time. Use your hands to touch each others bodies.
Spicy Twist
He reaches around to touch her in front. Keep your breathing at the same rate.
Action
He lies on his back. She climbs on top and faces him. She puts her hands on his chest. She lowers herself onto him. She decides how to move her hips.
Pro-Tip
The woman controls everything in this one. The man can tell her what he likes. It lets you see each other the whole time.
Spicy Twist
She leans back and puts her hands on his knees. She grinds her hips in circles.
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Action
He lies on his back. She gets on top but faces his feet. She puts her hands on his legs. She slides down onto him. She moves up and down or rocks.
Pro-Tip
This one hits different areas. If her legs get tired she can switch to another. Laugh if you lose balance.
Spicy Twist
He grabs her hips and helps her move. Add a light spank if you both agree.
After dark
Action
She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. He kneels directly behind her. He holds onto her hips. He enters her from behind. Start with slow movements.
Pro-Tip
He can pull her up so her back touches his chest. Kiss her neck while you stay in this position.
Spicy Twist
He reaches his hand around to rub her. Gently pull her hair if she says yes.
Action
The man sits on the bed with his legs in front of him. The woman sits on his lap facing him. She wraps her legs around his body. You hold each other and rock.
Pro-Tip
You stay close the entire time. You can kiss without moving much. This one is good when you are not in a hurry.
Spicy Twist
She moves up and down a little more. Keep kissing the whole time.
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Action
She stands and faces a wall or the side of the bed. He stands behind her. She lifts one leg up. He holds that leg and enters her. Use the wall for balance.
Pro-Tip
This one is good if you want to try something outside the bed. Take it slow so no one falls. It does not take long.
Spicy Twist
He tries to hold both legs if he can. Press her against the wall gently.
Action
Both of you lie on your sides and face each other. She puts her top leg over his hip. He enters while you stay close. Make small movements with your hips.
Pro-Tip
You can talk or kiss easily in this position. It works well after you eat a meal. Stay in it as long as you want.
Spicy Twist
Change to her lying on her back without getting up. Then move faster.
Final Tip
Pick one or two positions for tonight. Pay attention to what feels good for both of you. Sex gets better when you practice. Keep the conversation going after. Use those details next time.
Common Questions
Yes. Pick missionary or spooning first. They are simple. You can see your partner and move slowly. Talk while you do them.
Put a pillow under your hips or knees. Start with kissing and touching. Add lube if it helps. Change if your legs hurt.
Move from one to the next without getting up. Kiss in between. Ask your partner if the new one feels good.
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