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Anniversary nights work well when you keep things at home in your own bed. Turn off the main lights and use a lamp instead. Pick two or three positions from this list to try. Talk about them first so you both agree. These positions let you stay close and move in ways that feel good. Most require nothing but your bed. One uses a pillow to adjust height for better contact. Pay attention to your partner and change things if something does not feel right. This makes the night better for both of you.
Action
Lie on your sides facing each other. Wrap one leg over your partner. Move your hips gently while you stay in this hold. It lets you kiss and look at each other without much effort.
Pro-Tip
Keep your top arm free to touch your partner on the back or face as you move.
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Hold the position without any movement for thirty seconds then resume the motion.
Action
Lie on your sides with one partner behind the other. The back partner enters from that angle. Keep bodies close and move in small motions. This position is easy to hold for a long time.
Pro-Tip
The front partner can push back to set the rhythm that feels best.
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The back partner kisses the neck area during the activity.
After dark
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Sit facing your partner on the bed with legs wrapped around each other. Hold with your arms and rock your hips together. The position allows full front contact and good eye contact.
Pro-Tip
Use the headboard for back support if you need it during the rocking.
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Speak to each other about sensations you notice as you go.
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One partner leans against the wall while standing. The other faces them or turns around. Use the wall to stay in place while you move together in this standing position.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees slightly for better balance and comfort.
Spicy Twist
Change who leans against the wall after a few minutes.
After dark
Action
One person lies on their back on the bed. The other gets on top facing the feet. The top partner moves up and down or in circles at a comfortable speed.
Pro-Tip
The bottom partner can place hands on the hips to assist with motion.
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Switch to facing forward after some time has passed.
After dark
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One partner gets on their hands and knees. The other partner positions behind on their knees too. This allows for deeper movement and easy adjustments to the angle.
Pro-Tip
Adjust your knee position for better comfort on the bed.
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Lower down onto elbows to change the height and sensation.
Action
The receiving partner lies on their back with a pillow under their hips. The other gets on top between the legs. This lift changes the angle of entry and sensation.
Pro-Tip
Wrap your legs around the top partner to pull them closer if desired.
Spicy Twist
Hold hands while maintaining the position and eye contact.
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Both partners lie on their sides with heads at opposite ends. Each one can use their mouth on the other at the same time. You can control the intensity individually.
Pro-Tip
Focus on your partners reactions to see what they like best.
Spicy Twist
Pause and use your hands for a minute before returning to oral.
Final Tip
These positions give you options for your anniversary night. Try them in any order you like. The most important part is to stay present with your partner and enjoy the time together.
Common Questions
The face to face on sides position lets you see each other and talk easily which helps create closeness.
You need a bed and open time. A pillow helps in one of them for support.
Add some music in the background and take your time with each one instead of rushing.
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