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8 Simple Sex Positions for Newlyweds

Newlyweds get private time to see what you both like. These positions use basic setups so you can focus on each other. Check in often and move at a pace that feels right for you two. Most of them work in any bed without special tools. Start with ones that let you see each other if that helps you feel comfortable. Remember to talk about what feels good or what you want to change. Over time these can help you get to know each other better in bed.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Have her lie on her back with a pillow under her hips. Get on top between her legs and enter her. The extra height changes the angle so it feels different. You can look at each other the whole time. Start slow to get used to it together.

Pro-Tip

Keep your weight on your arms to stay in control of the movements. Check in with your partner often to make sure the angle is good for her too.

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She lifts her legs up and rests them on your shoulders for a deeper feeling. This small change can make a big difference in how it feels.

2. Woman on Top ✨

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You lie flat on your back. She gets on top facing you and lowers down. She moves her hips the way she likes. Hold her waist or thighs for support. This gives her the main control over speed and depth.

Pro-Tip

Tell her what you like as she moves so she knows what works. You can also hold her hips to help guide the rhythm together.

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Have her lean all the way forward so your bodies press together. This adds more contact and changes how everything feels.

3. Rear Entry 🌶️

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She gets on her hands and knees facing away. You kneel behind her and hold her hips. Enter from this direction and find a good rhythm. You can go deeper in this position. She can lower to her elbows if it is better.

Pro-Tip

Start with shallow movements before going further to see how she responds. Place a pillow under her head if she wants to rest her upper body.

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She lies completely flat on her stomach instead for a tighter feeling. You can lean over her back while you move.

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4. Side Spoon ✨

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Both lie on your sides with her in front. You enter from behind while staying in this position. It feels cozy and calm. Wrap one arm around her to stay close. Good choice when you want low effort.

Pro-Tip

Bend your top leg to improve the angle for both of you. This small adjustment often makes entry much easier and more comfortable.

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Reach around front to touch her while you move. The closeness of this position makes that easy to do.

5. Sitting Face to Face ✨

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Sit on the bed with legs in front of you. She gets in your lap facing you with legs wrapped around. Hold each other and rock together. Kissing is easy in this setup. Focus on the closeness it creates.

Pro-Tip

Use your hands under her to help lift her slightly if needed. Move your upper bodies together in small motions for the best results.

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Try the same thing on the floor with cushions for a change of surface. It can feel different in a new spot.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Stand facing each other with her back near a wall. She raises one leg around your hip. Support her and enter while standing. Use the wall to help with balance. Adjust your stance until heights match.

Pro-Tip

Keep your knees slightly bent the whole time to maintain good balance. Start with small movements until you both feel steady.

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Turn around so you enter from behind while standing. The wall helps her stay supported in this variation.

7. Reverse on Top ✨

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Lie on your back as she faces the other direction on top. She lowers onto you and moves her hips. The view and angle are new for both. She can lean her body forward or backward. Let her set the pace here.

Pro-Tip

She can place her hands on your legs for balance as she moves. This position works well when you want to relax on your back.

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Sit up so your chest is against her back. You can wrap your arms around her from this angle.

8. Raised Hips ✨

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She lies on her back and lifts her hips off the bed. Slide a firm pillow under her bottom to hold them up. You kneel and enter from the front. Her tilted position creates a new sensation. Keep her hips raised during the whole time.

Pro-Tip

She squeezes her core muscles to maintain the lift for as long as she can. Rest her hips down on the pillow when she gets tired.

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She straightens both legs up toward the ceiling. This changes the angle even more and lets you hold her ankles.

Final Tip

These eight positions give you plenty to try as newlyweds. Test them out over a few nights and remember which ones you both enjoyed. Keep communicating and you will learn fast what works best for you.

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