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Man and woman doing long distance video sex positions.

Positions For Long Distance Couples

Long distance sucks for sex. Fix it with video calls. Face your camera. Copy her every move if you're the guy, or his if you're the gal. Thrust, grind, moan together. Feels real. Start slow. Have fun.

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1. Missionary Position

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Action

Lie on your back facing the camera. Bend knees a bit. Spread legs open. Have your partner copy you. Lift hips up and down. Look in each other's eyes on screen. Stroke yourself to match their rhythm.

Pro-Tip

Grind hips slow at first. Tell them what you want them to do to you. Builds tension fast.

Spicy Twist

Record a close thrust video. Send it looping for them to watch over and over.

2. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

Straddle air like on their lap. Face camera. Bounce hips with hands on thighs. Lean back to show your body. Partner copies on their screen. Grind in circles between bounces.

Pro-Tip

Set camera low for full view. Take turns setting the speed. Switch power roles.

Spicy Twist

Put a pillow under your hips. Get extra lift for real bounce.

3. Side Spoon

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Action

Lie on side facing camera. Lift top leg high. Bend body to show where they enter. Rock hips forward and back. Partner copies spoon pose. Put pillow under waist for comfort.

Pro-Tip

Talk fantasies while rocking. Share secrets mid move. Gets you emotionally close.

Spicy Twist

Circle a finger at your entry spot. Beg them to thrust on video.

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4. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

Kneel on hands and knees away from camera first. Turn head for eye contact. Arch back. Push hips back steady. Partner copies. Slap your own ass when they say.

Pro-Tip

Speed up slow. Try power play commands. Safe way to vent over distance.

Spicy Twist

Zoom camera on your sensitive spot. Moan their name loud.

5. Seated Position 🌶️

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Action

Sit with legs crossed facing camera. Pull knees to chest. Rock forward and back. Touch your body all over. Partner sits same way to match.

Pro-Tip

Match breathing first. Rock slow. Strengthens feelings when far apart.

Spicy Twist

Use nipple clamps. Tug when they do for shared pinch.

6. Standing Position

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Action

Stand back to wall. Spread legs wide. Bend knees a little. Thrust pelvis out. Hands on wall. Partner stands same for sex feel.

Pro-Tip

Perfect for quick sessions. Plan surprise ones to stay spontaneous.

Spicy Twist

Drip lube down your legs on cam. Let them watch it run.

7. Simulation 🌶️

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Action

Lie on back. Put head at screen bottom. Knees up to frame body. Stroke and suck fingers like oral. Partner turns screen to match. Take turns moaning.

Pro-Tip

Work on oral skills alone. Record moans for later listens.

Spicy Twist

Push in a curved toy. Twist it while they watch shakes.

8. Side Saddle Position 🌶️

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Side Saddle Position illustration

Action

Lie on side. Drape top leg high. Hump air with hip pops. Face camera smile. Partner copies for body tease. Tuck pillow under hips for height.

Pro-Tip

Do on lazy nights. Cuddle talk after keeps the warm feeling.

Spicy Twist

Grind on pillow corner. Name it after them for hot claim.

Final Tip

Test these positions soon. Distance shrinks when you move together on screen. Fire stays lit till you touch for real. Keep it playful.

Common Questions

What equipment do we need?

Just a phone, laptop, or tablet with camera. Good lighting and privacy help. No other gear needed.

How to set up the video call?

Point camera at your body. Use pillows for support. Talk dirty and match rhythms.

Why try these positions?

It builds closeness and excitement. Makes reunions hotter. Try a few each week.

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