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Fill the tub halfway with warm water. Test the temperature with your hand first. Give yourselves enough room to move. Add a few drops of bath oil if you have some on hand. Dim the bathroom lights. Get in the tub one at a time to avoid splashing. Once you are both settled try out the different positions. The warm water relaxes your muscles and makes it easier to stay close. Use this time to talk or simply sit without words.
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Sit facing each other with your legs wrapped around the other person. Hold their shoulders with your hands. Talk about your day while the water covers you both up to the chest. This helps you make eye contact easily.
Pro-Tip
Sit on a folded washcloth if the tub floor is slippery or hard.
Spicy Twist
Kiss slowly while you hold the position.
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Sit with one person behind the other. Wrap your arms around their waist. Stay close so your bodies touch. The heat from the water eases tight shoulders and helps both of you unwind.
Pro-Tip
The back person should bend their knees slightly for better support.
Spicy Twist
Trace patterns with your fingers on the front persons skin.
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Cross your legs in front of you. Face your partner and hold their hands. Keep movements slow. This position works well for quiet conversation and helps you both feel the water warmth together.
Pro-Tip
Keep your upper bodies straight to prevent back pain.
Spicy Twist
Press your foreheads together and breathe in sync.
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Lean forward toward your partner. Rest your arms on their shoulders. Keep the water level at your chest. This opens up your back for better posture and allows easy access for shoulder rubs.
Pro-Tip
Keep water level high enough to cover your stomachs.
Spicy Twist
Hold each other closer and rock gently in the water.
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Both lean back against opposite ends. Stretch your legs out to meet in the middle. Hold feet or ankles. Relax and breathe together for a few minutes while the water soothes tired muscles.
Pro-Tip
Use the ends of the tub to support your backs.
Spicy Twist
Play with each others feet under the water.
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Use a pillow under one persons back for support. Sit upright facing the same way. Keep your bodies close. This helps if the tub feels hard on your skin or you want extra back support.
Pro-Tip
Choose a pillow that will not absorb too much water.
Spicy Twist
The person in back can massage the lower back of the other.
Final Tip
Try a few of these positions the next time you run a bath. They offer a simple way to spend uninterrupted time together. Change them as needed to suit your tub and your mood.
Common Questions
Yes they do. Stay close to each other and pick positions that need less space. Avoid spreading your legs too wide.
Yes they are. Pick two or three to start with. You can adjust them until they feel comfortable.
Fill it halfway with warm water around 100 degrees. Add salts or oil. Have dry towels and drinks ready outside the tub.
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