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Kama Sutra Positions for Your Anniversary

The word sutra means thread or rule in Sanskrit. The Kama Sutra is an old book from India with rules for love and sex. It shows different positions and ways to touch. For your anniversary you can pick some of these positions to try with your partner. The eight positions listed here can be done at home without any special tools. Talk to your partner about which ones you want to do. Go at a slow pace. Use pillows to make things more comfortable. Pay attention to what your body and your partner's body like after all this time.

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1. Legs up Missionary ✨

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Action

She lies on her back and brings both knees up toward her chest. Her feet rest on his shoulders if that feels okay. He kneels between her legs and enters her. They hold hands while he rocks his hips forward. A pillow under her hips changes the angle. This gives deep contact and keeps you face to face.

Pro-Tip

Say one thing you like about your partner while you look at each other. This works best after a calm meal at home.

Spicy Twist

Start with slow circles using your hips before you do full thrusts.

2. Lotus Seat 🌶️

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Action

He sits cross legged on the bed. She faces him and sits on his lap. She wraps her legs around his waist and lowers herself onto him. They sway their hips together in small circles or rocks. They hold each other around the back for balance and support.

Pro-Tip

Kiss on the neck or face between movements. This position fits well even on smaller beds or in tight spaces.

Spicy Twist

Run your fingers through each others hair while you stay close and move slowly.

3. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

He lies flat on his back with his knees slightly bent. She straddles him facing forward and puts her hands on his chest. She lowers onto him then moves up and down at her own speed. She leans her body forward or back to change how it feels inside.

Pro-Tip

She decides the speed and depth that works for her. He can place hands on her thighs to help without taking over.

Spicy Twist

She can lean down to kiss him on the mouth during short pauses in movement.

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4. Doggy With Arch 🌶️

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5. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both of you lie on your sides with him directly behind her. She lifts her top leg a small amount. He enters her from behind and wraps his arm around her waist. Gentle rocking motions work best in this position. It stays close with little effort needed.

Pro-Tip

Use the free hand to touch her chest or between her legs. This is good for mornings when you want something easy.

Spicy Twist

Whisper something you like about her body right next to her ear.

6. Reverse Straddle 🌶️

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Action

He lies flat on his back on the bed. She straddles him while facing his feet. She plants her feet on the bed for leverage and puts her hands on his knees. She moves up and down or grinds her hips backward. He has a clear view of her back.

Pro-Tip

She can switch to facing forward if her legs start to get tired. Pillows under his head help him watch better.

Spicy Twist

He reaches around with one hand to touch her in front while she moves.

7. Mutual Oral 🌶️

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8. Seated Face Position ✨

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Action

He sits with his back against the headboard and his legs straight out. She sits on his lap facing him and puts her legs over his. He enters her and they rock their pelvises together in small movements. They wrap their arms around each other and stay close.

Pro-Tip

Match your breathing so you inhale and exhale at the same time. Small movements help this position last longer than others.

Spicy Twist

Pause all movement for one full minute and just hold each other tightly.

Final Tip

Pick two positions at most for your anniversary. Laugh if something goes wrong. Talk about what you liked. Have a warm drink from a mug afterward. This is a simple way to mark another year together.

Common Questions

What does 'sutra' mean in Kama Sutra?

It means thread or rule in Sanskrit. The Kama Sutra is a set of short rules on how to have a good relationship. It includes positions and other advice.