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Sutra Meaning for Long Distance Couples

Distance makes relationships tough. Sutra is a word from ancient texts. It means a rule or line of teaching. The Kama Sutra is a collection of these about love and physical closeness. Long distance couples can adapt them for use on video calls. The eight tips here show you specific ways to do that. They focus on body positions and talking. You can do them at home with what you have. They do not cost much. Follow the steps and describe your feelings. This can help you feel closer to your partner.

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1. Eye Contact on Screen ✨

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Action

Set your camera on a table at eye level. Lie on your back on the bed. Look at your partner through the screen the whole time. Run your hands over your chest and stomach in slow strokes. Breathe in and out at the same rate as them. Tell them the details of what you are doing and how it feels to you right now.

Pro-Tip

Turn down other lights in the room to make the screen the main focus. Schedule the call for a time when you both can pay full attention without interruptions.

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Ask your partner to describe what they see and what they would do if they were next to you.

2. Cross Legged Sit ✨

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Action

Sit down with your legs crossed in front of the camera. Keep your back straight and lean a bit forward. Mirror any gestures your partner makes with their hands. Use a quiet voice to share thoughts about your relationship. Rock your body in small motions. Pay attention to how the position feels.

Pro-Tip

Place a cushion or pillow under you to make the position comfortable for ten minutes or more. Use the time to plan something you will do when you are together again.

Spicy Twist

Share one detail about your body that you would like them to know about during this type of call.

3. Side Lie Position ✨

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Action

Position yourself on your side so the camera captures your body from head to toe. Bend your knees slightly as if hugging a pillow. Run your hands along your own arm and hip area in time with your partner. Use words to explain the kind of contact you wish you had. Keep the position for several minutes.

Pro-Tip

Play a recording of rain or soft wind on both ends of the call. It can make the experience feel more like a shared environment.

Spicy Twist

Continue the hand movements to other areas while you keep talking about the sensations.

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4. Kneel Facing Away 🌶️

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Kneel on the surface with your back facing the camera for the start of the call. Turn your head to look over your shoulder at the screen. Keep your back arched in a comfortable way. Move your hips based on the words you hear from your partner. Make the motions slow and clear for them to see.

Pro-Tip

Use a book or box to hold your device at the right height and angle. Try different distances from the camera to see what works best.

Spicy Twist

Request specific instructions from your partner and do them one at a time without rushing.

5. Hip Movement 🌶️

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Sit in a way that looks like you are straddling something while facing the camera. Use your hips to make circular or forward motions. Place your hands on your upper body for balance. Keep looking at your partner and adjust how you move according to their feedback. Explain in words what the motion feels like for you.

Pro-Tip

Warm up your hips and legs with light movements before the call begins. This position lets one person lead the activity.

Spicy Twist

Increase or decrease the speed of your movements based on what your partner tells you during the call.

6. Drink From Mug ✨

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Action

Hold your mug filled with a warm drink while you sit in front of the camera. Take small sips at a slow pace. Show the inside of the mug to your partner when you tilt it. Use your free hand to touch your neck or leg lightly. Talk about your day or how the drink makes you feel.

Pro-Tip

Choose a drink that you both can have at the same time if possible. The mug gives your hands something to do and adds a normal activity to the call.

Spicy Twist

After sipping, describe how the warmth travels through your body and what it reminds you of.

7. Body Twist 🌶️

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8. Legs Raised 🌶️

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Final Tip

These tips can help long distance couples stay in touch. Try a different one each week on your calls. Talk about them after to see what you both liked. Over time you will know what works best for your relationship.

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