Date ideas
You just said your vows. These eight positions give you simple ways to connect physically. They let you keep eye contact and adjust easily. Go slow. Pay attention to her reactions. Most require nothing but the bed you already have. One uses a pillow under her hips to change the angle. Build from here over the first months together. This helps you learn what you both like.
Action
She lies on her back with her legs open. You get between them facing her. Support your weight on your elbows. You can kiss and see her face clearly. Move your hips in a steady rhythm that feels good for both.
Pro-Tip
Ask her to wrap her legs around your waist if she wants you closer. Keep communication open about what depth feels best.
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She can pull your body closer with her hands on your back or by using her legs.
Action
Both of you lie on your sides. She faces away from you. You fit in from behind. Your bodies stay touching along their length. This position feels relaxed and needs little energy to maintain.
Pro-Tip
Wrap your top arm around her to hold her close. Bend your knees together to stay aligned.
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Reach around with your hand to touch her in front while you continue the motion.
Action
She lies on her back. Place a pillow under her hips to raise them up. You kneel between her legs to enter. The pillow gives a better angle for deeper contact. Hold her legs for stability.
Pro-Tip
Pick a pillow that keeps its shape. Experiment with different sizes to see what she likes best.
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She can place her feet on your shoulders to adjust the angle even more.
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Action
You lie on your back. She climbs on top facing you and lowers herself onto you. She controls the speed and depth of movement. You can look at her and use your hands to touch her body.
Pro-Tip
She can lean forward or backward to hit different spots inside. Hold her hips to help guide her if she wants.
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She turns around to face the other way for a different sensation.
After dark
Action
You sit on the bed with your legs crossed. She sits in your lap facing you. Wrap your arms around each other. Rock back and forth together slowly. This keeps you in full contact.
Pro-Tip
Use your arms to support her back. You can do this sitting on the edge of the bed too.
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She can move her hips in small circles instead of just rocking.
After dark
Action
She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. You kneel behind her and enter. Hold her hips as you move. This position lets you go deeper and gives you control over the pace.
Pro-Tip
She can lower to her elbows if it feels better. Start slow until you find the right rhythm.
Spicy Twist
Reach around to touch her while you thrust from this position.
After dark
Action
She stands facing the wall with her hands on it for balance. You stand behind her. She lifts one leg if possible. Enter from behind while holding her. This works well for a change from lying down.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees to match heights. Make sure she has good balance before you start.
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Do it in front of a mirror so you can both watch.
Action
You lie on your sides with your heads at opposite ends. Each of you uses your mouth on the other person. You can do it at the same time. Focus on what gets a good reaction.
Pro-Tip
Adjust your positions until both of you are comfortable. Tell each other what pressure feels best.
Spicy Twist
Switch who is on top if you start in the side position.
Final Tip
Try two or three of these in one night. Talk about them afterward. You will figure out your favorites over time. This gives you a good base for your sex life as newlyweds.
Common Questions
No. Your bodies are enough. Add one only if you already use them together.
Yes. They are basic and easy to do. Start slow and communicate.
Slow your breathing. Change positions when you get close. Practice makes it easier.
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