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Many couples fall into the same routine during sex. These positions give you other choices you can start right away. They use walls counters stairs and other things already in your house. Most need no special items. One uses a pillow to change the angle. Talk with your partner first about trying them. Check for good balance before you begin. Adjust your stance so it feels right for both of you.
Action
One partner leans forward with hands on the wall at shoulder level. The other partner stands behind and enters from the rear. Keep your feet planted for balance. This works in small spaces like hallways.
Pro-Tip
Wipe the wall surface first and remove any hanging items nearby that could fall during movement.
Spicy Twist
The partner at the wall can shift their hips back and forth to set the pace.
After dark
Action
Sit on the edge of the kitchen counter with legs apart. The other partner stands in front between the legs. This height often lines up well. Clear all objects off the surface first.
Pro-Tip
Test the counter with your full weight to confirm it is sturdy enough for the activity.
Spicy Twist
Use something cold from the fridge on the skin before you start.
Action
Stand together in the shower with water running. One partner faces the wall while the other stands behind. Hold the wall or handles. The water adds a new sensation.
Pro-Tip
Put down a rubber mat so your feet do not slide on the wet floor.
Spicy Twist
Change who faces the water to alter the experience.
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Action
One partner stands on a lower step. The other stands on a higher step in front. Use the height difference for entry. Hold the railing with one hand at all times.
Pro-Tip
Begin on the first two stairs only until you both feel steady with the position.
Spicy Twist
Move up one step to change the angle during the activity.
After dark
Action
Bend over the back of the couch with feet on the floor. Your partner stands behind you. The couch provides support for your upper body. Keep movements controlled.
Pro-Tip
Place soft cushions on the floor in front in case you need to adjust your stance.
Spicy Twist
The bent partner can reach back to guide the other person.
After dark
Action
Stand inside the doorway and grip the frame with both hands. The other partner can face you or stand behind. The frame helps with balance and leverage.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the door is fixed open so it does not move while you hold it.
Spicy Twist
Lift one leg up around the partner if your balance allows it.
Action
Lie on your back and place a pillow under your hips. This raises the lower body. The other partner kneels in front. The angle feels different from normal.
Pro-Tip
Choose a pillow that holds its shape when pressure is added to it.
Spicy Twist
The bottom partner can raise and lower their hips while staying in place.
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Final Tip
These positions give you options when you want something different. Try them one at a time. Keep talking to each other about what feels good. Repeat the ones you both like best.
Common Questions
Yes when you pick easy ones and talk throughout. Begin slowly and pay attention to how your body feels. Stop right away if you feel any pain or lose balance.
Act on the idea as soon as it comes up. Choose a spot and position from the list. Keep the conversation short and focus on the moment you are in.
The wall and counter positions work well. You can stay mostly dressed. These take very little time to get into and require no special preparation.
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