Date ideas

Newlywed couple in man on top position with pillow for support on their bed.

Positions for Newlywed Couples

Newlyweds have many things to learn about each other. These eight positions offer simple ways to spend time in bed. They range from basic to more involved. You can do them all at home. Focus on how your bodies move together. Watch your partner for signs of what feels good. A pillow can adjust height in one or two. Discuss preferences before and after. Start with familiar ones. Add new ones later. This helps you develop good routines.

1. Man on Top ✨

Cost: $At homeCute mode • 🌶️🌶️

Action

She lies on her back with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. He gets between her legs and faces her. He holds himself up on his elbows. He enters her and they move their hips together in a matching rhythm. They keep close for kisses and eye contact the whole time.

Pro-Tip

This position works well for couples just starting out because it feels natural. Keep the pace slow at the beginning. Ask each other if the angle or speed needs any adjustment to feel better.

Spicy Twist

Put a pillow under her hips to raise the angle. She can wrap her legs around his body. This allows for different movements and sensations.

2. Woman on Top ✨

Cost: $At homeGetting warmer • 🌶️🌶️🌶️

Action

He lies on his back on the bed. She climbs on top and faces him. She straddles his hips and guides him inside her. She moves her hips in the way that feels best to her. He can place his hands on her hips or waist to help her.

Pro-Tip

The woman has control over the speed and depth in this position. She can experiment with different movements. The man should let her know what he likes to see and feel from below.

Spicy Twist

She turns around to face his feet instead. She continues the hip movements while he has a different view. He can reach out to touch her body.

3. Doggy Style 🌶️

After dark

Cost: $At homeAfter dark • 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

Action

She gets on her hands and knees on the bed and arches her back. He kneels directly behind her. He holds onto her hips with his hands. He enters her from that position. They find a rhythm by moving back and forth together.

Pro-Tip

This one feels different from face to face positions. You can adjust how close you stay by changing how much she leans down. It is good to communicate about the intensity.

Spicy Twist

He can reach around with one hand to touch her front while moving. This adds another layer of sensation for her during the activity.

Featured gift

Kamasutra Cute - Basic Pillow

Keep the spark going with a gift that matches the mood of this guide.

Shop now ✨

4. Spooning ✨

Cost: $At homeCute mode • 🌶️🌶️

Action

You both lie on your sides in the same direction. He positions himself behind her body. She lifts her top leg slightly to allow entry. He holds her close with one arm. They make small movements while staying in this spoon position.

Pro-Tip

It requires less energy than other positions so it is good for when you are tired. You can stay holding each other for a long time after. Use it for morning sessions.

Spicy Twist

She can lift her leg higher to allow him to go deeper. He can use his hand to touch her body at the same time.

5. Lotus ✨

Cost: $At homeGetting warmer • 🌶️🌶️🌶️

Action

The man sits on the bed with his legs crossed. The woman sits on his lap facing him. She wraps her legs around his waist. They hold each other with their arms. They rock their hips together in a slow and close manner.

Pro-Tip

Sit in this position for longer periods to enjoy the closeness. You can talk or just look at each other without much movement. It helps you feel tuned to your partner.

Spicy Twist

She can move her hips in small circles instead of rocking. He can kiss her neck and chest area while they stay wrapped together.

6. Legs on Shoulders 🌶️

After dark

Cost: $At homeAfter dark • 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

Action

She lies flat on her back on the bed. He kneels in front of her and lifts her legs. He rests her legs on his shoulders. He holds her by the thighs or hips. They move together in this raised position.

Pro-Tip

The angle allows for deeper penetration so start slow. Make sure to ask if it feels comfortable for her. Adjust the height with support if needed.

Spicy Twist

Place a pillow under her lower back before you begin. This can make the position more comfortable for longer periods. Hold her legs in place gently.

7. Wall Support ✨

Cost: $At homeGetting warmer • 🌶️🌶️🌶️

Action

She stands and faces the wall. She puts both hands on the wall for balance. He stands behind her. He lifts one of her legs and holds it. He enters from behind and they move carefully in the standing position.

Pro-Tip

This one is useful when you do not have time to get into bed. It can be done in the shower or against a door. Take turns holding the leg up.

Spicy Twist

She can turn around to face him. He can try to lift both legs if he is strong enough. They hold each other tightly.

8. Reverse on Top 🌶️

After dark

Cost: $At homeAfter dark • 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

Action

He lies on his back on the bed. She gets on top but faces away from him. She places her feet near his chest area. She lowers herself onto him and moves her hips. He can watch and hold her from this view.

Pro-Tip

The woman still controls the action in this variation. She can change the angle by leaning forward or back. The man can give feedback from his position below her.

Spicy Twist

She can lean forward to change the angle completely. He can touch her lower back or other areas while she moves on top of him.

Final Tip

Pick a few of these positions to try over the next week. Pay attention to which ones you both enjoy the most. Give feedback to each other after each time. This will help you build a set of favorites for your regular routine.

Common Questions