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Newlywed couple in man on top position with pillow for support on their bed.

Positions for Newlywed Couples

Newlyweds have many things to learn about each other. These eight positions offer simple ways to spend time in bed. They range from basic to more involved. You can do them all at home. Focus on how your bodies move together. Watch your partner for signs of what feels good. A pillow can adjust height in one or two. Discuss preferences before and after. Start with familiar ones. Add new ones later. This helps you develop good routines.

1. Man on Top ✨

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Action

She lies on her back with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. He gets between her legs and faces her. He holds himself up on his elbows. He enters her and they move their hips together in a matching rhythm. They keep close for kisses and eye contact the whole time.

Pro-Tip

This position works well for couples just starting out because it feels natural. Keep the pace slow at the beginning. Ask each other if the angle or speed needs any adjustment to feel better.

Spicy Twist

Put a pillow under her hips to raise the angle. She can wrap her legs around his body. This allows for different movements and sensations.

2. Woman on Top ✨

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3. Doggy Style 🌶️

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4. Spooning ✨

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Action

You both lie on your sides in the same direction. He positions himself behind her body. She lifts her top leg slightly to allow entry. He holds her close with one arm. They make small movements while staying in this spoon position.

Pro-Tip

It requires less energy than other positions so it is good for when you are tired. You can stay holding each other for a long time after. Use it for morning sessions.

Spicy Twist

She can lift her leg higher to allow him to go deeper. He can use his hand to touch her body at the same time.

5. Lotus ✨

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6. Legs on Shoulders 🌶️

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7. Wall Support ✨

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8. Reverse on Top 🌶️

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Final Tip

Pick a few of these positions to try over the next week. Pay attention to which ones you both enjoy the most. Give feedback to each other after each time. This will help you build a set of favorites for your regular routine.

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