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8 Sex Positions for Couples

You know those nights when you want more than quick fun? These positions give you ways to stay close during sex. They let you look at each other and move at a comfortable pace. Most need only your bed. One or two work better with a pillow for support. Pick one when you have twenty or thirty minutes free. Start with the easier ones and see what you both like. Adjust as you go and talk about the sensations.

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1. Missionary Position

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Action

Place a pillow under the woman's hips. She lies on her back with knees bent. The man gets on top facing her. Keep faces close for eye contact. Move hips together slowly. The pillow changes the angle for both of you. Talk about what feels good as you go.

Pro-Tip

Pick a firm pillow that holds its shape. Test the height first before full movement to get the angle right.

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Keep your eyes open and look at each other the whole time while you move together slowly.

2. Side Spoon

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Action

Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. The man enters from behind. Bodies touch along the back. One partner can reach around to touch. This needs little energy. Use small hip motions. It works when you want a calm pace.

Pro-Tip

The front person bends their top knee slightly. This helps with alignment and makes entry smoother for the back person.

Spicy Twist

The back partner kisses the neck and shoulders while keeping a steady rhythm.

3. Woman on Top

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4. Seated Position

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5. Pretzel Position 🌶️

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6. Legs on Shoulders

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7. Woman on Top 🌶️

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8. Chair Position

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Final Tip

Try these positions when you have time to go slow. See which ones fit your bodies best. Communication during them makes the experience better. You may find new favorites that you return to often.

Common Questions

Which positions work best for beginners?

Side spooning and lifted missionary need little flexibility. They feel familiar and let you adjust easily. Start with those and communicate what works.

How can positions improve our relationship beyond sex?

They require you to talk about what feels good. Eye contact and slow pace help you pay attention to your partner. This builds better habits outside the bedroom too.

What positions are great for her orgasm?

Woman on top gives her control over speed and angle. Seated face to face lets her grind exactly how she needs. Experiment to find what works for her body.

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