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8 Sex Positions for Couples

You know those nights when you want more than quick fun? These positions give you ways to stay close during sex. They let you look at each other and move at a comfortable pace. Most need only your bed. One or two work better with a pillow for support. Pick one when you have twenty or thirty minutes free. Start with the easier ones and see what you both like. Adjust as you go and talk about the sensations.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

Place a pillow under the woman's hips. She lies on her back with knees bent. The man gets on top facing her. Keep faces close for eye contact. Move hips together slowly. The pillow changes the angle for both of you. Talk about what feels good as you go.

Pro-Tip

Pick a firm pillow that holds its shape. Test the height first before full movement to get the angle right.

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Keep your eyes open and look at each other the whole time while you move together slowly.

2. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. The man enters from behind. Bodies touch along the back. One partner can reach around to touch. This needs little energy. Use small hip motions. It works when you want a calm pace.

Pro-Tip

The front person bends their top knee slightly. This helps with alignment and makes entry smoother for the back person.

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The back partner kisses the neck and shoulders while keeping a steady rhythm.

3. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

Man lies flat on his back. Woman straddles facing him and lowers down. She sets the speed and depth with her movements. Hands rest on his chest for balance. Both see faces clearly. Pause to adjust position. This gives her full control over the act.

Pro-Tip

Woman leans forward or backward to change pressure and sensations for both of you during the motion.

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Move in small circles instead of straight up and down to create different feelings.

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4. Seated Position ✨

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Action

Man sits with legs crossed on the bed. Woman sits on his lap facing him. Wrap legs around his back. Hold each other with arms. Use small rocking motions. This keeps full body contact. Movements stay slow and focused the entire time.

Pro-Tip

Sit near the edge of the bed if crossed legs feel uncomfortable. Use arms to support weight.

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Kiss on the mouth and neck at the same time as the rocking motion.

5. Pretzel Position 🌶️

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Action

Woman lies on her back with one knee bent and foot flat. Man kneels and places one leg over hers. Enter from the angled position. Hold the raised knee. Switch sides after some time. This gives a tight snug fit. Adjust legs until comfortable.

Pro-Tip

Apply extra lube if the new angle feels dry at first. Go slow until aligned properly.

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Use a free hand for clitoris stimulation at the same time as the thrusts.

6. Legs on Shoulders ✨

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Action

Woman lies on her back near bed edge. Rest both legs on the man's shoulders. He kneels or stands and enters. Go slow with deep movements. Watch for comfort with leg pressure. Communicate clearly about how it feels. Adjust body position as needed.

Pro-Tip

Woman relaxes her legs completely. Tell your partner right away if anything feels too intense or painful.

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Gently hold her ankles and pull slightly toward you during the motion.

7. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

Man lies on his back. Woman sits on top facing his feet. She moves up and down or in circles. Man sees her back and can hold her hips. She leans forward or back to change angle. This gives new sensations compared to facing positions.

Pro-Tip

Woman places hands on his legs or the bed for better balance and control while moving.

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Man rubs her back or gives light spanks if both enjoy that during the movements.

8. Chair Position ✨

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Action

Man sits on bed edge or chair. Woman sits on his lap facing him. Wrap legs around his waist. Rock back and forth together. Arms hold each other for rhythm. Good for kissing throughout. This position supports longer sessions without tiring quickly.

Pro-Tip

Make sure the seat is stable and will not tip over during the rocking motion.

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Whisper exactly what feels good to you at that moment into your partner's ear.

Final Tip

Try these positions when you have time to go slow. See which ones fit your bodies best. Communication during them makes the experience better. You may find new favorites that you return to often.

Common Questions

Which positions work best for beginners?

Side spooning and lifted missionary need little flexibility. They feel familiar and let you adjust easily. Start with those and communicate what works.

How can positions improve our relationship beyond sex?

They require you to talk about what feels good. Eye contact and slow pace help you pay attention to your partner. This builds better habits outside the bedroom too.

What positions are great for her orgasm?

Woman on top gives her control over speed and angle. Seated face to face lets her grind exactly how she needs. Experiment to find what works for her body.

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