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8 Home Activities for Couples

Couples often get busy and forget to make time for each other. These activities provide exact instructions you can follow tonight. You sit facing one another, share personal ideas, or try a new way to hold each other. Most take less than twenty minutes. Choose a time when the house is quiet. Put your phones in another room. After you finish each activity spend five minutes talking about it. This helps you understand your partner better.

1. Practice Eye Contact ✨

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Action

Sit on the bed facing your partner with your knees almost touching. Look directly into their eyes for five minutes. Do not talk or look away on purpose. Notice the color of their eyes and how they react. If you start to laugh that is fine.

Pro-Tip

Make sure the room is well lit so you can see clearly. Sit up straight to avoid neck strain during the five minutes.

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After you finish the time limit move in for a long kiss but keep looking at each other until your lips touch.

2. Share Your Fantasies 🌶️

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3. Match Your Breathing ✨

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Action

Lie down side by side and face each other. Close your eyes and breathe in and out at the same time. Keep this rhythm for ten minutes. Adjust your pace until it matches perfectly.

Pro-Tip

Place your hand on your partners chest to feel their breathing. This makes it easier to match the pattern.

Spicy Twist

Move your bodies closer together as you breathe to increase physical contact during the exercise.

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4. Trace Each Others Skin ✨

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Action

Use your fingers to slowly trace lines on your partners arms back and legs. Take turns being the one who touches. Ask your partner to tell you which spots feel good. Keep the touch light and slow.

Pro-Tip

Keep your fingernails trimmed so you do not scratch by accident. Use lotion on your hands to make the touch smoother.

Spicy Twist

Follow the same path with kisses after you finish tracing with your fingers.

5. Seated Position 🌶️

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6. Say What You Appreciate ✨

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Action

Take turns naming three specific things you appreciate about your partner. Say them out loud and explain why. Do this exercise once a week to remind each other of the good things.

Pro-Tip

Write the things down on paper first if speaking feels difficult. Read them to your partner instead of improvising.

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Include things you appreciate about your partners body or how they touch you.

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8. Activity Together Slowly ✨

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Action

Play music you both like. Take off your clothes and stand close together. Move to the music and touch each other as you activity. Continue for ten minutes or until the song ends.

Pro-Tip

Dim the lights if either of you feels self conscious about being naked. Choose songs that are around three minutes long.

Spicy Twist

Let your hands explore your partners body as you move together to the beat.

Final Tip

Pick one activity from this list to try this week. Follow the steps and then discuss how it went. Keep the ones that work for both of you and do them regularly.

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