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Couples often get busy and forget to make time for each other. These activities provide exact instructions you can follow tonight. You sit facing one another, share personal ideas, or try a new way to hold each other. Most take less than twenty minutes. Choose a time when the house is quiet. Put your phones in another room. After you finish each activity spend five minutes talking about it. This helps you understand your partner better.
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Action
Take turns naming three specific things you appreciate about your partner. Say them out loud and explain why. Do this exercise once a week to remind each other of the good things.
Pro-Tip
Write the things down on paper first if speaking feels difficult. Read them to your partner instead of improvising.
Spicy Twist
Include things you appreciate about your partners body or how they touch you.
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Final Tip
Pick one activity from this list to try this week. Follow the steps and then discuss how it went. Keep the ones that work for both of you and do them regularly.
Common Questions
Start with one activity each week. This gives you enough time to talk about it afterward. You can repeat your favorites more often.
Shyness is normal when you start something new. Begin with the activities that seem easiest. Tell your partner if you need to go slower.
You learn more about what your partner likes. This leads to better communication and more satisfying time together in the bedroom.
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