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8 Ways to Change Missionary

One person lies on their back. The other lies on top facing them. This is the missionary position. Here are eight ways to change it. Some use pillows. Others change leg placement or hip movements. Each gives exact steps to follow, a practical tip, and one twist. All can be done in your bed. One uses a deck of cards. The rest need no extra items. Choose one and try it next time you are together.

1. Look at Each Other ✨

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Action

Get in the missionary position with faces close. Keep your eyes open and look at your partner for the entire time. Breathe in and out together. Rock your hips back and forth slowly. Say short words about the feeling.

Pro-Tip

Start with five seconds of eye contact if it feels hard. Increase the time each time you try it. This gets easier with practice.

Spicy Twist

Gently hold the sides of your partner's face with your hands while you look at each other.

2. Lift The Hips ✨

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3. Legs on Shoulders 🌶️

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4. Grind The Hips ✨

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Action

Use the missionary position. Instead of moving in and out, press the hips together and make grinding motions. The bottom person wraps legs around the top person's waist. Keep the pressure steady for several minutes.

Pro-Tip

Set a timer for twenty minutes to stay in this mode. It requires you to slow down and pay attention to the contact.

Spicy Twist

Use your fingers to trace lines along your partner's spine as you grind.

5. Support The Back ✨

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6. Hold The Hands ✨

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7. Match Your Breaths ✨

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Action

Get into missionary position. Focus on your breathing and try to match the in and out with your partner. Start the hip movements only when breaths are in sync. Pause every minute to reset the breathing.

Pro-Tip

Practice the breathing while clothed first to get the timing right. This makes it easier when you are naked.

Spicy Twist

Stop all movement when you breathe out and restart on the next inhale.

8. Draw a Card 🌶️

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Final Tip

Try one of these the next time you are in bed. Follow the steps. Talk to your partner about which parts felt good. This lets you decide what to try again.

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