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Gamepad Positions for Gamer Couples

Many couples who play video games want to add their hobby to intimate time. These positions show how to hold game controllers while you have sex. Each person keeps one controller in their hands throughout. You can press buttons or use vibration as you move. It gives a sense of teamwork. Wireless controllers work best. Try these in your own bed. Start slow and see which ones you both enjoy most.

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1. Missionary With Controllers

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Action

She lies on her back. He gets on top facing her. They hold one controller each between their chests. He enters her. They press buttons while moving their hips together. They keep their eyes on each other.

Pro-Tip

Use wireless controllers so cords do not get in the way. Choose a favorite song to follow for rhythm.

Spicy Twist

Turn on the vibration feature at the start of the position and raise it slowly as you continue.

2. Cowgirl With Controllers

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Action

He lies on his back. She sits on top of him facing forward. They hold their controllers in front of them. She moves her hips in circles or up and down. He moves up from below to match her.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under his head for comfort. Keep your words positive and encouraging.

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Complete a set number of hip movements before changing the speed.

3. Lotus With Controllers

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Action

You sit close facing each other with your legs wrapped around. Hold the controllers between your bodies. He enters her. You rock your hips back and forth slowly. Press buttons to add feeling.

Pro-Tip

Place pillows under your knees if you sit on the floor. Match your breathing with your partner.

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Draw one card from a deck of playing cards to decide the next speed.

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4. Spooning With Controllers

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Action

You lie on your sides with her in front. He enters her from behind. She holds her controller in front of her body. He reaches his arm around to hold his. They move their hips together.

Pro-Tip

This position requires little energy. It is good for times when you feel tired.

Spicy Twist

Use the controllers to lightly touch sensitive spots on each other during the movements.

5. Doggy With Controllers 🌶️

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6. Sixty Nine With Controllers 🌶️

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7. Reverse Cowgirl With Controllers 🌶️

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8. Pretzel With Controllers 🌶️

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Final Tip

Try a few of these positions with your partner. They use things you already have. Talk about what you liked afterwards. It can add variety to your nights at home.

Common Questions

Why do gamepad positions work well for gamers?

They use controllers you already own. This makes it easy to go from gaming to being intimate. It adds shared interests to your time together.

Do I need gamepads for these positions?

Wireless gamepads are best. They let you move without trouble. Button presses and vibrations can make things more exciting.

How can we add competition to this activity?

Set small bets between you. Or draw from a deck of playing cards to choose random moves.

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