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Sex Positions for Long Distance Reunions

After months apart, seeing your partner in person again brings a rush of feelings. You want to make up for lost time but also take it easy at first. These eight sex positions are practical choices for that first weekend back together. They range from simple and close to more athletic ones. All of them can be done in your home without special equipment. Focus on what feels right in the moment instead of trying to do everything at once. Remember to communicate clearly about what you both want.

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1. Legs up Missionary

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Action

One partner lies on their back with legs raised and placed on the other partner's shoulders. The kneeling partner moves forward to enter. This creates deep penetration and direct eye contact. It works on any bed right after you reunite.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under the hips to adjust the height and reduce strain on the lower back. This small change can make a big difference in comfort.

Spicy Twist

Add a blindfold for one partner to heighten the other senses and build anticipation.

2. Against The Wall 🌶️

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3. Cowgirl Position

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4. Side Spoon

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction. The back partner pulls in close and enters from behind. This keeps you pressed together for maximum skin contact. It is gentle enough for the first hours after a long separation.

Pro-Tip

Use your top arm to hold your partner around the waist for stability.

Spicy Twist

Reach around with one hand to touch sensitive areas.

5. Standing Doggy 🌶️

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6. Lotus Position

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7. Reverse Cowgirl

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8. Wheelbarrow 🌶️

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Final Tip

These positions give you options for your reunion night. Pick one or try several in sequence. The most important part is staying present with your partner and checking in on what feels good.

Common Questions

What is the best starter position?

Legs up missionary works well as a starter because it is familiar and lets you maintain eye contact while easing into physical contact.

Do we need props or toys?

No. Most positions require nothing extra. A regular pillow helps with angles and comfort in a couple of them but is not required.

How do we make it more emotional?

Keep eye contact in face to face positions. Talk about how the time apart felt and what you missed before and during the act.

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