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Sex Positions for Long Distance Reunions

After months apart, seeing your partner in person again brings a rush of feelings. You want to make up for lost time but also take it easy at first. These eight sex positions are practical choices for that first weekend back together. They range from simple and close to more athletic ones. All of them can be done in your home without special equipment. Focus on what feels right in the moment instead of trying to do everything at once. Remember to communicate clearly about what you both want.

1. Legs up Missionary ✨

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Action

One partner lies on their back with legs raised and placed on the other partner's shoulders. The kneeling partner moves forward to enter. This creates deep penetration and direct eye contact. It works on any bed right after you reunite.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under the hips to adjust the height and reduce strain on the lower back. This small change can make a big difference in comfort.

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Add a blindfold for one partner to heighten the other senses and build anticipation.

2. Against The Wall 🌶️

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Action

One partner stands with their back against a wall. The other lifts one leg and holds it while entering. This brings urgency and strength into your reunion. It can start in the hallway or bedroom without any setup.

Pro-Tip

Bend your knees slightly to keep balance and avoid slipping on the floor.

Spicy Twist

Switch who stands against the wall halfway through the position.

3. Cowgirl Position ✨

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Action

One partner lies flat on the back. The other straddles facing them and controls the movement with their hips. This gives the top partner control over speed and depth. Use it to look at each other and stay connected.

Pro-Tip

Place hands on the chest or shoulders for better balance during movement.

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Lean back to change the internal angle completely.

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4. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction. The back partner pulls in close and enters from behind. This keeps you pressed together for maximum skin contact. It is gentle enough for the first hours after a long separation.

Pro-Tip

Use your top arm to hold your partner around the waist for stability.

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Reach around with one hand to touch sensitive areas.

5. Standing Doggy 🌶️

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Action

One partner bends over the edge of the bed. The other stands behind and holds the hips while entering. This position adds height difference excitement and allows for stronger movements. Good when you feel energetic after the wait.

Pro-Tip

Use a sturdy surface at the right height to avoid back strain.

Spicy Twist

Pull hair gently if both partners enjoy that sensation.

6. Lotus Position ✨

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Action

Sit facing each other with legs wrapped around the partner's back. Rock together slowly while holding each other close. This creates full body contact and is good for kissing. It slows things down after more active positions.

Pro-Tip

Sit on the edge of the bed if the floor feels too hard.

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Whisper to each other about what you missed during the movement.

7. Reverse Cowgirl ✨

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Action

One partner lies on their back. The other faces away while straddling and moving up and down. This changes the view and angle completely. It lets the top partner focus on their own pleasure while the bottom one relaxes.

Pro-Tip

Hold onto the legs for better leverage and control.

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Turn around midway through to switch to the forward facing version.

8. Wheelbarrow 🌶️

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Action

One partner stands and holds the other partner's legs like a wheelbarrow. The bottom partner supports themselves on hands or forearms. This requires some strength but delivers intense sensation. Save it for when you are fully warmed up.

Pro-Tip

Start near a bed so you can rest if arms get tired quickly.

Spicy Twist

Move a few steps across the room slowly if you can manage it.

Final Tip

These positions give you options for your reunion night. Pick one or try several in sequence. The most important part is staying present with your partner and checking in on what feels good.

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