1. Missionary Position ✨
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You have been apart. These positions give you ways to get physical again. Some keep you close with lots of contact. Others let you move with more force. Choose a private room with a bed. Remove your clothes and spend time touching first. Pick one position to start with. Listen to your partner if they want to change anything. You can switch to another one after a few minutes. This helps you both enjoy being in the same room again.
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Action
Both of you lie on your sides facing the same direction. Your partner goes behind you. Bend your top leg to make space. They enter from behind. Stay pressed against them.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow between your knees for extra comfort if you stay in this spot long.
Spicy Twist
Reach back with one hand to touch their leg or side.
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Final Tip
These positions give you good choices after time apart. Try one or two during your first night together. See what works for you both. Talk about them later so you know for next time.
Common Questions
The lotus sit lets you look at each other and hold each other. You can talk and see their reactions right away.
Use pillows where your body needs support. Go slow when you first start. Stop if anything hurts.
The side spoon and missionary hold are simple to do. The others take a little practice but anyone can learn them.
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