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You have been apart. These positions give you ways to get physical again. Some keep you close with lots of contact. Others let you move with more force. Choose a private room with a bed. Remove your clothes and spend time touching first. Pick one position to start with. Listen to your partner if they want to change anything. You can switch to another one after a few minutes. This helps you both enjoy being in the same room again.
Action
You lie on your back. Your partner lies on top facing you. Wrap your legs around their waist. Hold their back with your hands. Move your hips to match their rhythm. Keep your eyes open to see their face.
Pro-Tip
Put your hands on their lower back to pull them closer. This changes how deep they go.
Spicy Twist
Have your partner hold your wrists above your head during this position.
Action
Both of you lie on your sides facing the same direction. Your partner goes behind you. Bend your top leg to make space. They enter from behind. Stay pressed against them.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow between your knees for extra comfort if you stay in this spot long.
Spicy Twist
Reach back with one hand to touch their leg or side.
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Action
Your partner lies flat on their back. You climb on top facing them. Put your knees on the bed. Move your hips in circles or up and down. Lean forward to kiss them.
Pro-Tip
Use your hands on their chest to balance yourself better.
Spicy Twist
Turn around to face their feet instead for a new view.
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Action
Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you. They hold your hips and enter from behind. Arch your back a little.
Pro-Tip
Spread your knees wider to lower your body if that feels better.
Spicy Twist
Have them pull your hair gently if you both like that.
Action
Sit on the bed facing your partner. They sit in front of you. Wrap your legs around their body. They wrap theirs around you. Hold each other and rock back and forth.
Pro-Tip
Sit on a firm surface or add cushions if your legs get tired.
Spicy Twist
Whisper to each other while you stay in this position.
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After dark
Action
Lie on your sides facing each other. Open your legs. Lift one leg over their hip. They slide in between your legs. Move your hips against them.
Pro-Tip
Adjust the angle of your bodies until it feels right for both.
Spicy Twist
Use your free hand to touch yourself or them at the same time.
Action
Lie on your back near the edge of the bed. Raise your legs straight up. Rest them on your partner's shoulders. They stand or kneel in front of you. Put a pillow under your hips.
Pro-Tip
Relax your legs if they start to cramp. Switch legs if needed.
Spicy Twist
Have your partner rub your feet while in this position.
Final Tip
These positions give you good choices after time apart. Try one or two during your first night together. See what works for you both. Talk about them later so you know for next time.
Common Questions
The lotus sit lets you look at each other and hold each other. You can talk and see their reactions right away.
Use pillows where your body needs support. Go slow when you first start. Stop if anything hurts.
The side spoon and missionary hold are simple to do. The others take a little practice but anyone can learn them.
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