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Couple in standing position during anniversary in bedroom

Sex Positions for Your Anniversary

Your anniversary gives you a chance to try new sex positions together. These eight ones can all be done in your bedroom. They tell you exactly how to place your bodies and move. Each has a tip that makes it easier to do. One twist per position shows a small change you can add. Most need no extra items. Two of them work better with a pillow in place. Pick the ones you like and try them in any order. Tell your partner if you want to change something.

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1. Standing Position

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Action

Stand facing each other. Place hands on the hips. Lift your partner a small amount as they wrap their legs around your waist. Kiss them on the mouth. Move your hips in a slow way. Keep this for thirty seconds then lower them to the floor.

Pro-Tip

Do this after you eat your anniversary dinner. It starts the night while you stand up. Look at each other without looking away for the full thirty seconds.

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Say one thing you like about them while you kiss. Move your hands around their back.

2. Chair Position

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Action

Sit on the bed facing each other with your legs crossed. One person sits in the lap of the other. Wrap your arms around the neck. Move your hips from side to side slowly. Look at each other the whole time and breathe the same way.

Pro-Tip

This one lets you stay in one spot for a while. Tell a story from one of your past anniversaries to fill the time between moves.

Spicy Twist

Change to small circles with your hips instead. See if that feels different for you both.

3. Hips up 🌶️

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4. Standing Position

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Action

Have one person stand with their back to the wall. Raise one leg up and put it on the other person's hip. Hold the leg and body weight. Move upward while you kiss the neck area. Switch to the other leg after one minute.

Pro-Tip

This one is good if you have already had your anniversary drinks. It uses the wall so you do not need a bed for support.

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Tap the raised leg with your hand a few times if your partner agrees to it.

5. Side Spoon

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Action

Both of you lie on your sides. One person is behind the other. The back person lifts the top leg of the front person. Enter from behind and hold that leg. Move your hips at the same time as your partner.

Pro-Tip

Pick this one when you want to stay lying down the whole time. You can hold each other without much effort between movements.

Spicy Twist

Reach your hand around to the front of their body while you continue to move.

6. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Final Tip

These positions give you choices for your anniversary night. Use them in the order you want. The pillow helps in two positions. Talk about what worked for you when you finish.

Common Questions

How do beginners handle these positions?

Start with the easy ones like the seated position or side position. Talk to your partner about what feels good. Stop if it hurts at all.

What sets an anniversary mood?

Lower the lights in your room. Turn on music you both enjoy. Have a drink ready. Mention one memory from the year.

Are there safety tips for these positions?

Make sure both of you agree to each step. Stretch your body first. Use a pillow for support. Go slow when you start.

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