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First Position for Gamer Couples

Couples who play games together often look for other shared activities. The first position is a common way to begin physical closeness. One partner lies on their back. The other lies on top facing them. This setup allows you to see your partner's face and touch easily. It works well in a bedroom setting. The following eight items give specific actions to take before during and after. They help you pay attention to each other and adjust as you go.

1. Prepare The Space ✨

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Turn off all screens and put controllers away in another room. Make the bed with clean sheets and add two pillows for support under the head or lower back. Close the curtains and door for privacy. This removes distractions so both partners can focus on the moment and each other.

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Check the bed for any squeaking sounds before you start. Keep a glass of water on the nightstand in case you need to pause and drink.

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Do this preparation together after you stop playing your game so the shared activity carries over into the bedroom.

2. Get Into Position ✨

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Have one partner lie flat on their back in the middle of the bed. The other partner moves on top and rests on their elbows to support their own weight. Line up your bodies so you can look at each other without straining your necks. Adjust leg positions until it feels stable.

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The top partner should keep elbows bent at first to prevent too much pressure on the bottom partner during the start.

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The bottom partner can wrap legs around the top partner to pull them closer during the activity.

3. Start With Kissing ✨

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Once in position lean down to kiss your partner on the lips. Move to the neck or shoulders with slow kisses. Notice how your partner reacts to different pressure. Keep most of your weight on your arms so you can move freely while kissing.

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Use your lips and tongue based on what your partner seems to enjoy most in the moment.

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Switch between soft kisses and more intense ones while you stay locked in the same position.

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4. Draw a Card 🌶️

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5. Control The Speed 🌶️

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6. Keep Eye Contact ✨

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Look directly at your partner while you are in the position. Keep your faces close enough to see expressions clearly. If it feels intense you can look away briefly then return to eye contact. This helps you read each other's reactions during the entire time.

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Focus on one eye or the space between the eyes if direct eye contact feels too strong at first.

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Try to hold the eye contact during the moments when movements become more intense.

7. Use Your Hands 🌶️

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8. Finish And Rest ✨

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As you near the end reduce the speed of all movements. Stay in the first position until both partners finish. After you are done remain close together without moving for several minutes. You can talk about the experience or simply lie quietly next to each other.

Pro-Tip

Have a towel or tissues ready on the nightstand for quick cleanup after you finish.

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Continue light touching and kissing while you rest in or near the same position.

Final Tip

These steps give you a good way to try first position. Remember to communicate with your partner the whole time. Adjust anything that does not feel right. With practice you will find what works best for the two of you.

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