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Long distance does not have to stop you from trying first position. The position is easy to copy on your own. Use a video call with good quality. Both need a bed and private space. Place your device to show your body clearly. Talk about the plan before you connect. This includes how long to stay in position and what to say. Good lighting helps. A stable connection avoids problems. Focus on the experience.
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Position your phone or laptop at the end of the bed so your partner sees your full body. Lie down on your back with knees bent. Ask your partner to copy the same setup on their end. Make sure the lighting lets them see you move.
Pro-Tip
Test the view with a quick test call before you get started.
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Adjust the angle to show more of your body as you go.
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Get into first position on the bed. Move your hips slowly while your partner does the same at the same time. Watch the screen to stay in rhythm. Talk about how the timing feels for you.
Pro-Tip
Count out loud from one to ten to start together.
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Increase speed only when both are ready.
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Breathe at the same rate while you hold the first position. Inhale and exhale together on the call. Use this rhythm to control the pace of your movements. Keep your eyes on your partner on the screen.
Pro-Tip
Practice the breathing pattern for a minute before you start moving.
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Hold your breath for a few seconds to add tension.
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Tell your partner what the first position feels like on your body. Use specific words about the pressure and motion. Listen to their description and respond with your own observations. Keep the position the entire time.
Pro-Tip
Focus on one body part at a time to keep it simple.
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Ask questions about what they want you to do next.
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Stay on the call once you finish the main activity. Lie in a comfortable position near the camera. Talk about which parts felt the best. End the call when both of you feel ready.
Pro-Tip
Keep a blanket handy in case you get cold.
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Plan the next session based on what worked.
Final Tip
These steps let you try first position even when apart. Practice a few times to get the timing right. Adjust based on what works for both of you.
Common Questions
Both lie in the position on your beds. Set cameras to show your bodies clearly. Move at the same time and describe what you feel.
Begin with clothes on and lights dimmed. Talk about your limits first. Start with short sessions and build up over time.
Choose a room with no interruptions. Use a stable device stand. Test the internet and camera angle ahead of time.
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