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Long distance relationships can feel difficult because you cannot touch or see each other every day. These activities give you specific things to try with your partner using your phone. They take little time and fit into most schedules. You can do them on video calls or by sending files. Try one activity each week and discuss it afterwards. This keeps your connection active until you meet again.
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Action
Record a short voice note about your day or thoughts about your partner. Send it when you wake up or before bed. Ask your partner to send one back the same day. Listen to them when you have quiet time.
Pro-Tip
Speak slowly and clearly so your words are easy to understand on the recording.
Spicy Twist
Include what you miss most about physical contact with them.
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Action
Set up a video call in a comfortable spot. Look directly into the camera for several minutes without speaking. Notice how it feels to hold the gaze. Tell each other what thoughts came up during the silence.
Pro-Tip
Dim the lights in the room to make the call feel more private.
Spicy Twist
Try the activity with less clothing on during the call.
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Final Tip
Pick two activities to try this month. Talk after each one about what you liked. This helps you adjust them to fit your relationship better.
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They can. The activities create regular points of contact and give you new things to discuss. This keeps the relationship active instead of waiting for the next visit.
Choose the activities with lower spicy levels first. Talk about what makes each person comfortable. You can adjust the steps to move slower if needed.
Select times that overlap for video calls. For other activities you can send messages at any time. Keep a shared note with both schedules visible.
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