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Long distance relationships can feel difficult because you cannot touch or see each other every day. These activities give you specific things to try with your partner using your phone. They take little time and fit into most schedules. You can do them on video calls or by sending files. Try one activity each week and discuss it afterwards. This keeps your connection active until you meet again.
Action
Agree on a time to start your shower. Begin a video call and set the phone where it can see you safely. Talk about what you are doing or stay quiet and listen to each other. This makes an ordinary task feel shared.
Pro-Tip
Place your phone on a dry shelf or use a stand to avoid any water damage during the call.
Spicy Twist
Describe in detail what you would do if your partner was there with you in the shower.
Action
Record a short voice note about your day or thoughts about your partner. Send it when you wake up or before bed. Ask your partner to send one back the same day. Listen to them when you have quiet time.
Pro-Tip
Speak slowly and clearly so your words are easy to understand on the recording.
Spicy Twist
Include what you miss most about physical contact with them.
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Action
Take a set of photos that gradually show more. Send them with breaks of thirty minutes between each one. Write a short caption for each photo. Wait for your partner to comment before you send the next.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the lighting in the room is good so the photos are clear.
Spicy Twist
Focus the later photos on areas of your body you know they like.
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Action
Start a video call. Have one person give instructions on what to do or remove. The other person follows each direction exactly. Keep the session under twenty minutes. Switch who gives the directions next time.
Pro-Tip
Agree on a safe word in case either person wants to stop the activity.
Spicy Twist
Make the instructions more specific as the call continues.
Action
Choose a simple situation like meeting at a cafe. Start the call and play the roles. Describe what you do and say in the scene. Continue for five to ten minutes. You can stop and laugh if it feels odd.
Pro-Tip
Write down a few lines for each role so you have a starting point.
Spicy Twist
Move the scene toward more private locations as it develops.
Action
Set up a video call in a comfortable spot. Look directly into the camera for several minutes without speaking. Notice how it feels to hold the gaze. Tell each other what thoughts came up during the silence.
Pro-Tip
Dim the lights in the room to make the call feel more private.
Spicy Twist
Try the activity with less clothing on during the call.
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Action
Select a position you both want to try. Use a pillow to stand in for your partner. Show the camera how you would move in that position. Discuss what parts feel good or need adjustment.
Pro-Tip
Watch a short video first so you both understand the basic shape of the position.
Spicy Twist
Try to hold the position for one minute while on the call.
Action
Decide on one new thing to try when you meet next. Practice the movements or actions alone. Send your partner a note about what you practiced. Make a short list of other things to do together.
Pro-Tip
Buy any small items you need for the activity so you are ready when you meet.
Spicy Twist
Focus your practice on movements that involve close contact.
Final Tip
Pick two activities to try this month. Talk after each one about what you liked. This helps you adjust them to fit your relationship better.
Common Questions
They can. The activities create regular points of contact and give you new things to discuss. This keeps the relationship active instead of waiting for the next visit.
Choose the activities with lower spicy levels first. Talk about what makes each person comfortable. You can adjust the steps to move slower if needed.
Select times that overlap for video calls. For other activities you can send messages at any time. Keep a shared note with both schedules visible.
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