Date ideas
After months of video calls seeing your partner in person feels overwhelming. You want to touch and hold them but it can take time to sync up again. These eight positions are good for that first weekend back. They range from slow and close to more active. Try them in any order. A pillow can adjust the height in some. Go slow and check in with your partner. What matters is enjoying each others company.
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Action
Both of you lie on your sides. Your partner stays behind you and enters from that angle. Stay pressed together with their arm around you. This keeps things calm and close.
Pro-Tip
Curve your body to match theirs exactly so alignment feels natural. Reach behind with one hand to touch their leg or hip during the act.
Spicy Twist
Have them reach around to touch you in front while moving slowly.
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Action
Sit in each others lap facing one another with legs wrapped around. Hold each other close and rock gently together. This position is slow and very intimate.
Pro-Tip
Support each others backs with your arms to prevent strain. Whisper to each other during the slow movements.
Spicy Twist
Add light bites or kisses on the neck while you hold each other tight.
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Final Tip
These positions give you options for your first nights back together. Pick two or three to try and see what you both enjoy. The key is to stay present with each other and have fun.
Common Questions
Missionary and lotus let you maintain eye contact and stay close. These help you feel connected after time apart. Spooning also works because you can hold each other the whole time.
A pillow under the hips can make angles more comfortable. It reduces strain on your back and lets you try positions that might otherwise be difficult.
Focus on foreplay and communication. Take breaks to talk or laugh together. Try new positions but do not force anything that does not feel right.
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