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Sex Positions for Long Distance Reunions

After months of video calls seeing your partner in person feels overwhelming. You want to touch and hold them but it can take time to sync up again. These eight positions are good for that first weekend back. They range from slow and close to more active. Try them in any order. A pillow can adjust the height in some. Go slow and check in with your partner. What matters is enjoying each others company.

1. Missionary ✨

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Action

You lie on your back. Your partner lies on top facing you. Wrap your arms around their back and look at each other. This position makes it easy to kiss and talk. It is a gentle way to start after time apart.

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Bend your knees and plant your feet on the bed for better leverage. Wrap your legs around their waist to pull them closer if you want more contact.

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Pin their hands down gently or have them hold yours above your head.

2. Spooning ✨

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Action

Both of you lie on your sides. Your partner stays behind you and enters from that angle. Stay pressed together with their arm around you. This keeps things calm and close.

Pro-Tip

Curve your body to match theirs exactly so alignment feels natural. Reach behind with one hand to touch their leg or hip during the act.

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Have them reach around to touch you in front while moving slowly.

3. Cowgirl 🌶️

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Action

Your partner lies flat on their back. You climb on top facing them and lower yourself down. Control the movements with your hips. Lean forward to kiss them or sit up straight.

Pro-Tip

Place your hands on their chest or shoulders to steady yourself. Watch their reactions to see what they like best.

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Try moving your hips in slow circles instead of just up and down.

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4. Doggy Style 🌶️

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You get on your hands and knees. Your partner positions themselves behind you. They can hold your hips while they thrust. Lower your shoulders to the bed if it feels better.

Pro-Tip

Use pillows under your head or chest if you want to relax your upper body. Talk about the pace because you cannot see each other.

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Arch your back or have them pull your hair lightly if you both enjoy that.

5. Lotus ✨

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Action

Sit in each others lap facing one another with legs wrapped around. Hold each other close and rock gently together. This position is slow and very intimate.

Pro-Tip

Support each others backs with your arms to prevent strain. Whisper to each other during the slow movements.

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Add light bites or kisses on the neck while you hold each other tight.

6. Standing 🌶️

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7. Reverse Cowgirl 🌶️

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Your partner lies on their back. You face away from them while on top. You control the motion and they get a view from behind. Lean forward to change the angle.

Pro-Tip

Hold onto their legs for balance. You can also reach down to touch yourself if you want.

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Have them spank you lightly if that is something you both like.

8. Legs Raised ✨

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Action

Lie on your back with your legs up. Rest them on your partners shoulders or hold them up. Place a pillow under your hips to lift them higher. This changes the depth and angle.

Pro-Tip

The pillow takes pressure off your lower back. Adjust it until the height feels right for both of you.

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Have your partner hold your ankles or calves while they move.

Final Tip

These positions give you options for your first nights back together. Pick two or three to try and see what you both enjoy. The key is to stay present with each other and have fun.

Common Questions

Which positions best help you reconnect after time apart?

Missionary and lotus let you maintain eye contact and stay close. These help you feel connected after time apart. Spooning also works because you can hold each other the whole time.

How can a pillow change these positions?

A pillow under the hips can make angles more comfortable. It reduces strain on your back and lets you try positions that might otherwise be difficult.