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Oiled Kama Sutra Positions for Relaxation

Watch a movie with calm scenes. Then use oil to massage your partner. The oil makes everything feel smooth. These eight positions give you ways to stay close. They come from old ideas but are easy to do. Start slow with touches and rubs. Pay attention to how your partner reacts. Use towels on the bed. The whole thing happens in your own room. It is a good way to spend an evening without going out. Keep it simple and stop if it does not feel right.

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1. Massage Position

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Action

Rub oil between your hands to warm it. Have your partner lie face down. Start at the shoulders and use long strokes down to the lower back. Work on the arms and legs too. Ask them to turn over and do the front side. Keep all movements slow.

Pro-Tip

Have a mug of tea ready to drink together first. This helps you both get in the right mood.

Spicy Twist

Slowly move your hands to areas that are more sensitive as they become more relaxed.

2. Chair Position

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3. Lying on Back

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4. Side Position

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Action

Both lie on your sides with one behind the other. Cover your bodies with oil. The person behind wraps an arm around. Enter and rock your hips in an easy rhythm. This is good for times when you want less effort.

Pro-Tip

This position works well at the end of a movie night.

Spicy Twist

Use your free hand to caress the front of their body.

5. Standing Position 🌶️

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6. Lying on Front 🌶️

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7. Kneeling Position 🌶️

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8. Straddled Sit

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Final Tip

Clean up the oil when done. Sit and talk about the night. Try your favorite positions again soon. This gives you a simple way to relax together at home.

Common Questions

What oils work best for these positions?

Coconut oil and almond oil are good options. Warm them slightly before use. Always test on a small spot of skin first.

Are these positions safe for beginners?

Yes they are. Cover the bed with towels. Discuss what you both want first. Begin with light oil amounts and short times.

How do you add the cinema part?

Play a movie with slow scenes in the background. Copy some of the movements from the film. Keep the sound low enough to hear each other.

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