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Watch a movie with calm scenes. Then use oil to massage your partner. The oil makes everything feel smooth. These eight positions give you ways to stay close. They come from old ideas but are easy to do. Start slow with touches and rubs. Pay attention to how your partner reacts. Use towels on the bed. The whole thing happens in your own room. It is a good way to spend an evening without going out. Keep it simple and stop if it does not feel right.
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Rub oil between your hands to warm it. Have your partner lie face down. Start at the shoulders and use long strokes down to the lower back. Work on the arms and legs too. Ask them to turn over and do the front side. Keep all movements slow.
Pro-Tip
Have a mug of tea ready to drink together first. This helps you both get in the right mood.
Spicy Twist
Slowly move your hands to areas that are more sensitive as they become more relaxed.
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Sit on the bed facing your partner with your legs crossed. Have them wrap their legs around you. Put oil on your chests and backs. Rock your bodies together gently while you hold each other and look in the eyes.
Pro-Tip
Add pillows behind each person for better support during the hold.
Spicy Twist
Whisper to each other about how the position feels as you move.
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Have your partner lie on their back. Spread oil over their body from the neck down. Get on top in between their legs. Move your hips in slow waves. Hold their hands and change the speed from time to time.
Pro-Tip
Use eye contact to stay aware of what your partner likes.
Spicy Twist
Kiss the neck or shoulders lightly while moving together.
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Both lie on your sides with one behind the other. Cover your bodies with oil. The person behind wraps an arm around. Enter and rock your hips in an easy rhythm. This is good for times when you want less effort.
Pro-Tip
This position works well at the end of a movie night.
Spicy Twist
Use your free hand to caress the front of their body.
After dark
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Stand with your partner against a wall. Apply oil to your bodies and legs. Lift one of their legs around your hip. Hold them and move upward in steady motions. Use your hands to keep good balance.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the surface under your feet is not slippery.
Spicy Twist
Ask them to tell you what they want during the hold.
After dark
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Your partner lies on their stomach with a pillow under the hips. Oil their back and your front. Get on top and press close. Move your hips in circles. Keep your weight balanced on your arms.
Pro-Tip
Check often to make sure the pillow height feels good.
Spicy Twist
Pull their hair gently if they enjoy that feeling.
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Sit cross legged on the bed. Have your partner sit on your lap facing you. Apply oil to both of you. They move up and down slowly while you hold each other tight. Focus on being close.
Pro-Tip
Sip water from a mug after to stay comfortable.
Spicy Twist
Hold the position after finishing to enjoy the closeness.
Final Tip
Clean up the oil when done. Sit and talk about the night. Try your favorite positions again soon. This gives you a simple way to relax together at home.
Common Questions
Coconut oil and almond oil are good options. Warm them slightly before use. Always test on a small spot of skin first.
Yes they are. Cover the bed with towels. Discuss what you both want first. Begin with light oil amounts and short times.
Play a movie with slow scenes in the background. Copy some of the movements from the film. Keep the sound low enough to hear each other.
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