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After months apart you finally get to be together. The first time you have sex can feel like a lot. These positions give you some structure so you do not have to figure it all out in the moment. They range from gentle and close to more energetic. Most need nothing but your bed. One uses a pillow to adjust height. Pay attention to your partner and talk about what feels good. This helps you both enjoy the reunion more.
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Lie on your sides facing one another. Lift one leg over the other person to allow entry. Hold each other in the arms and rock gently. This one requires little energy and lets you stay close the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees a bit for better alignment. Use a pillow under your head for comfort if you plan to stay in it for long.
Spicy Twist
Use your free hand to touch her back or breasts while you continue moving.
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Both lie on your sides with you behind her. She curls up and you enter from behind. Hold her body against yours. This feels comforting after time apart.
Pro-Tip
Keep your bodies as close as possible. You can stay in this position even after you finish if you want.
Spicy Twist
She can push back against you with her hips to increase the movement.
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Final Tip
Choose a few of these before your partner arrives. Try them in any order that feels right. The important part is being in the same space and paying attention to each other. Over time you will find your own favorites.
Common Questions
They give you specific things to do with your bodies. This makes it easier to get close again after time apart. You focus on the actions instead of feeling awkward.
Start with the easier ones. It may take a few minutes to get the rhythm back. Laugh if it feels strange at first. That is normal.
Yes. You can describe them to each other on a call. You can even practice the shapes with your clothes on. It gives you something to look forward to.
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