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Positions for Long Distance Reunions

After months apart you finally get to be together. The first time you have sex can feel like a lot. These positions give you some structure so you do not have to figure it all out in the moment. They range from gentle and close to more energetic. Most need nothing but your bed. One uses a pillow to adjust height. Pay attention to your partner and talk about what feels good. This helps you both enjoy the reunion more.

1. Face to Face ✨

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Action

You sit with your legs crossed. Your partner sits on your lap facing you. Wrap your arms around each other. Move your hips together slowly. This position keeps you close and lets you kiss. It is a good way to start the reunion because it feels personal.

Pro-Tip

Sit on the edge of the bed so your feet can touch the floor for balance. Start with little movements until you get used to each other again.

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Try stopping all movement for a minute while staying connected. Then start again slowly.

2. on Your Sides ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides facing one another. Lift one leg over the other person to allow entry. Hold each other in the arms and rock gently. This one requires little energy and lets you stay close the whole time.

Pro-Tip

Bend your knees a bit for better alignment. Use a pillow under your head for comfort if you plan to stay in it for long.

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Use your free hand to touch her back or breasts while you continue moving.

3. Hips on Pillow 🌶️

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Action

She lies on her back. Put a pillow under her hips to raise them up. You kneel in front and enter her. The pillow changes the angle for both of you. Hold her legs or thighs while you thrust.

Pro-Tip

Make sure the pillow is firm enough. Ask her how the angle feels and move the pillow if needed.

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She can pull her knees toward her chest to make it tighter and change how deep it goes.

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4. Standing Hold 🌶️

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Action

Stand facing each other. She lifts one leg around your waist or you hold her up. Lean against a wall for support. This position uses the excitement of being together again to keep energy high.

Pro-Tip

Keep your knees slightly bent. Make sure both feet are stable before you begin moving.

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Lift her other leg too if you feel strong enough to hold her full weight.

5. You on Top ✨

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Action

Lie on your back. Your partner straddles you and lowers herself on. She controls the speed and depth. This lets her set the pace after long time away.

Pro-Tip

Use your hands to support her movements or touch her body. Let her lead completely for this one.

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She can lean forward or back to change how it feels for both of you.

6. From Behind 🌶️

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Action

She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. You kneel behind her and enter. Hold her hips and move together. This one feels direct and can be adjusted for comfort.

Pro-Tip

Start very slow at first. Pay attention to her reactions and ask if the angle is good.

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She can lower her upper body to the bed for a different angle.

7. Spooning ✨

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Action

Both lie on your sides with you behind her. She curls up and you enter from behind. Hold her body against yours. This feels comforting after time apart.

Pro-Tip

Keep your bodies as close as possible. You can stay in this position even after you finish if you want.

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She can push back against you with her hips to increase the movement.

8. Legs Over Shoulders 🌶️

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Final Tip

Choose a few of these before your partner arrives. Try them in any order that feels right. The important part is being in the same space and paying attention to each other. Over time you will find your own favorites.

Common Questions

How do Kama Sutra positions help long-distance couples reconnect?

They give you specific things to do with your bodies. This makes it easier to get close again after time apart. You focus on the actions instead of feeling awkward.