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Newlyweds have a lot to learn about each other in bed. These eight positions offer a good starting point for couples who want to keep things interesting. They are all things you can do without leaving your home. Some are relaxing while others give more control to one person. Follow the descriptions to get into each position safely. The pro tips give practical advice to improve the experience. The twists offer ways to change the feel without learning something completely new. Remember to check in with your partner often.
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Both lie on your sides facing the same way. The partner behind enters while you stay pressed together. This works well for calm evenings when you want little effort.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees a bit and use your top arm to hold each other close. Move together in a slow rhythm.
Spicy Twist
The front partner can reach back to guide the pace with their hand.
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Final Tip
These positions help you learn what you both enjoy. Take time with each one and adjust as needed. The main goal is to enjoy time together as you start your marriage.
Common Questions
Start by talking about what you both want to try. Begin with small changes to positions you already know. Take it slow and stop if anything feels uncomfortable.
Side by side positions like spooning require almost no effort. You can stay lying down and still feel close without much movement.
There is no fixed number. Try one new position every week or two. Focus on what feels good rather than trying to do all of them quickly.
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