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Newlyweds have a lot to learn about each other in bed. These eight positions offer a good starting point for couples who want to keep things interesting. They are all things you can do without leaving your home. Some are relaxing while others give more control to one person. Follow the descriptions to get into each position safely. The pro tips give practical advice to improve the experience. The twists offer ways to change the feel without learning something completely new. Remember to check in with your partner often.
Action
Lie on your back while your partner lies facing you on top. Wrap your legs around them or keep them flat. This lets you see each other and kiss easily during the act.
Pro-Tip
Slide a pillow under your hips to lift them slightly. This improves the angle and adds comfort for longer sessions.
Spicy Twist
Hold eye contact the entire time and kiss slowly between movements.
Action
Both lie on your sides facing the same way. The partner behind enters while you stay pressed together. This works well for calm evenings when you want little effort.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees a bit and use your top arm to hold each other close. Move together in a slow rhythm.
Spicy Twist
The front partner can reach back to guide the pace with their hand.
Action
Your partner lies flat on their back. Straddle and lower yourself onto them facing forward. You control the speed, depth, and angle by shifting your hips.
Pro-Tip
Place hands on their chest to steady yourself. Try moving in small circles instead of only up and down.
Spicy Twist
Lean forward to change the pressure and kiss them at the same time.
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Get on your hands and knees. Your partner kneels behind you and holds your hips while entering. This gives them control and allows for deeper motion.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under your head or elbows if your arms get tired. Adjust your back position for comfort.
Spicy Twist
Lower down to your elbows to create a different angle and sensation.
After dark
Action
Your partner sits cross legged. Sit on their lap facing them and wrap your legs around their back. Rock gently together while holding each other.
Pro-Tip
Keep your arms around each other for balance. Focus on small movements rather than big ones in this setup.
Spicy Twist
Add kissing and touching on the back and shoulders while rocking.
After dark
Action
Stand facing each other. Lift one leg around your partner as they support you against a wall or door frame for balance during entry.
Pro-Tip
Make sure you have good footing and your partner has a firm grip. This works best when both of you are similar heights.
Spicy Twist
Try it in the shower for a change of setting and sensation.
Action
Your partner sits on the edge of the bed or a sturdy chair. Straddle them facing forward and lower down. They can help guide the movements.
Pro-Tip
Hold onto their shoulders for support. Use your legs to control how high or low you go each time.
Spicy Twist
Switch directions so you face away from them after a few minutes.
Action
Lie on your sides facing each other with your legs intertwined. Adjust your top leg over their hip for entry. Stay close and move together slowly.
Pro-Tip
Use your hands to hold each other in place. This position works well when you want something different but still relaxed.
Spicy Twist
Roll slightly from side to side to vary the pressure and contact.
Final Tip
These positions help you learn what you both enjoy. Take time with each one and adjust as needed. The main goal is to enjoy time together as you start your marriage.
Common Questions
Start by talking about what you both want to try. Begin with small changes to positions you already know. Take it slow and stop if anything feels uncomfortable.
Side by side positions like spooning require almost no effort. You can stay lying down and still feel close without much movement.
There is no fixed number. Try one new position every week or two. Focus on what feels good rather than trying to do all of them quickly.
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