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These positions keep you close to your partner. They put you face to face in most cases. This lets you see expressions and hear breathing. Use slow hip movements. Your bodies touch from chest to legs. You can do all of them in your bedroom. No special skills or flexibility are needed. Start with the first position on the list. Pay attention to how your partner reacts. Take time to talk about the session when you finish. Try different ones over the next few weeks.
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Woman lies on her back with knees bent. Man gets on top facing her. Bring chests close together. Look each other in the eyes. Move hips with slow steady motions.
Pro-Tip
Say something nice to your partner while in the position. Keep the words short and positive. This helps you stay focused on the moment.
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Move hands slowly over each other's backs during the motion. Add a few kisses on the neck or shoulders.
Action
Lie on your sides facing the same direction. Man is behind the woman. She lifts her top leg a bit. He enters from behind. Wrap an arm around her. Match your hip movements.
Pro-Tip
This position works when you feel tired. You do not have to move much. Stay in it after to rest together.
Spicy Twist
Use your hand to reach around and touch her front. Keep the pace slow and even.
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Man sits on the bed with legs crossed. Woman sits on his lap facing him. Wrap her legs around his body. He enters her. Hold each other with your arms. Rock your bodies back and forth.
Pro-Tip
You can do this one on a chair too if the bed is too soft. Adjust your sitting height for comfort.
Spicy Twist
Use your arms to pull each other as close as possible. Change the rocking direction occasionally.
Action
Lie on your sides so you face each other. Woman puts her top leg over the man's hip. He enters in this position. Pull your upper bodies close. Kiss often and use shallow movements.
Pro-Tip
This position is good for longer sessions. You can stop and start easily without changing much.
Spicy Twist
Slide one hand down to touch between your bodies. Keep all actions gentle.
Action
Woman lies on her back. Place a pillow under her hips to lift them. Man kneels in front and enters her. Use the raised angle for your movements. Keep your faces close enough to see clearly.
Pro-Tip
Different pillows change the height. Test a few to find the one that feels best for both of you.
Spicy Twist
Use one hand to support her lower back. Add small circular motions with your hips.
Action
Begin in the man on top position. Woman wraps her legs around his waist and crosses her ankles. This pulls him closer to her. Place hands on each other's backs. Move your bodies together at the same time.
Pro-Tip
Practice squeezing with the legs at different strengths. It lets you signal what depth feels right without speaking.
Spicy Twist
Add light touches with your fingers on the skin. Build the pace gradually together.
Final Tip
Pick one of these positions to try this week. Keep the movements slow and pay attention to your partner. Talk about what you both liked when you finish. Do this on a regular basis.
Common Questions
Most do not require it. Keep your knees bent or use extra pillows if a position feels tight.
Look at each other. Move slowly. Talk about the experience after you are done.
Agree to keep the speed slow. Check in with each other several times during the session.
