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Positions for Closer Sex

These positions keep you close to your partner. They put you face to face in most cases. This lets you see expressions and hear breathing. Use slow hip movements. Your bodies touch from chest to legs. You can do all of them in your bedroom. No special skills or flexibility are needed. Start with the first position on the list. Pay attention to how your partner reacts. Take time to talk about the session when you finish. Try different ones over the next few weeks.

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1. Facing Missionary

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Action

Woman lies on her back with knees bent. Man gets on top facing her. Bring chests close together. Look each other in the eyes. Move hips with slow steady motions.

Pro-Tip

Say something nice to your partner while in the position. Keep the words short and positive. This helps you stay focused on the moment.

Spicy Twist

Move hands slowly over each other's backs during the motion. Add a few kisses on the neck or shoulders.

2. Side Spoon

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Action

Lie on your sides facing the same direction. Man is behind the woman. She lifts her top leg a bit. He enters from behind. Wrap an arm around her. Match your hip movements.

Pro-Tip

This position works when you feel tired. You do not have to move much. Stay in it after to rest together.

Spicy Twist

Use your hand to reach around and touch her front. Keep the pace slow and even.

3. Woman on Top 🌶️

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4. Seated on Lap

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5. Facing on Sides

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6. Legs on Shoulders 🌶️

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7. Pillow Under Hips

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8. Tight Leg Wrap

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Final Tip

Pick one of these positions to try this week. Keep the movements slow and pay attention to your partner. Talk about what you both liked when you finish. Do this on a regular basis.

Common Questions

Do these positions need flexibility?

Most do not require it. Keep your knees bent or use extra pillows if a position feels tight.

How do you stay focused on each other?

Look at each other. Move slowly. Talk about the experience after you are done.

What if one partner wants faster movement?

Agree to keep the speed slow. Check in with each other several times during the session.

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