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Prepare your room by dimming the lights and playing soft music. Warm some oil and start with a back massage. This gets your bodies ready for close contact. Choose positions that let you stay in one place without rushing. Pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust as needed. The positions work best when you take time to breathe and move together. A pillow can make some of them more comfortable by supporting your body.
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Lie on your sides with your partner behind you. Bend your knees slightly for better access. The movements stay small and controlled. This position requires almost no energy so you can stay in it for a long time.
Pro-Tip
Wrap one arm around your partner to feel more connected during the activity.
Spicy Twist
Keep your eyes closed and focus only on the physical sensations.
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Lie flat on your stomach with your legs slightly spread. Your partner lies on top of you from behind. The contact is full and the movements are limited. This is useful when you want minimal effort from both sides.
Pro-Tip
Turn your head to one side to breathe comfortably throughout.
Spicy Twist
Have your partner kiss your neck and shoulders while in this position.
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Final Tip
These positions give you options for a calm night together. Pick one or two to try. Go slow and tell your partner what feels good. Finish by cleaning up and drinking some water.
Common Questions
Coconut oil or almond oil are common choices. They feel good on skin and wash off easily. Always test on a small area first to avoid irritation.
Lay down several towels on the bed to protect the sheets. Warm the oil by rubbing it between your hands. Set a calm mood with low lights and quiet music.
Oil can break latex condoms so it is not recommended. Use a water based lubricant with latex condoms instead.
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