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You spent months apart with calls and texts. Now you are finally together in the same room. Sex can feel new again after that time. These positions give you ways to get close at a comfortable pace. Some let you look at each other. Others let you hold on tight. Start with what feels familiar. Take time to get used to each other again. Talk about what feels good as you go. The goal is to enjoy being physical together without pressure.
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Lie on your back with your partner on top facing you. Wrap your legs around their body or keep them on the bed. This position allows you to maintain eye contact and kiss. Move together at a pace that feels comfortable.
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Place a pillow under your hips to adjust the angle and add comfort during the movement.
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Hold their face with both hands and keep eye contact the whole time.
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Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. Your partner enters from behind while you stay curled together. This position keeps your bodies touching along their length. It works for a relaxed pace.
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Bend your knees slightly to make entry easier and control the depth.
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Reach your hand back to touch their leg or hip as you move.
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Have your partner lie on their back. Straddle them and lower yourself down facing them. You control the speed and depth this way. Lean forward or sit up straight to change how it feels.
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Place your hands on their chest for balance while you move your hips.
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Lean down close to kiss them during the motion.
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Sit facing each other on the bed. Your partner enters you while you wrap your legs around their waist. This gives full body contact from the start. You stay close the whole time.
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Rock your hips gently instead of bouncing to keep the position stable.
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Talk to each other quietly while you stay in this position.
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Lie on your sides facing one another. Lift one leg over your partner's hip for entry. This position lets you kiss and see each other clearly. Move with small motions.
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Hold onto their shoulder to pull your bodies closer together.
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Kiss their neck and face the entire time you are together.
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Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you and enters from that direction. Adjust by spreading your knees wider or narrower. This gives good leverage.
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Lower your chest down to the bed if that angle feels better.
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Have them reach around to touch your front while moving.
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Lie on your back and place your legs over your partner's shoulders. They kneel in front of you for entry. This changes the angle and depth. Start slow to get used to it.
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Use a pillow under your hips to make it more comfortable for longer.
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Use your legs to pull them closer with each thrust.
Final Tip
These positions give you options when you reunite. Try one or two that feel right for the night. Adjust them based on what your bodies need after the time apart. The point is to enjoy each other again.
Common Questions
Begin with kissing and touching for a while. Choose a position that lets you move slowly and stop if needed. Talk to your partner about what feels good.
Ones where you can see each other's faces work well. Missionary and face to face sit let you look at one another and stay close.
Change positions before you get too close to the end. Take breaks to kiss and touch. Move slowly and pay attention to each other.
