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You spent months apart with calls and texts. Now you are finally together in the same room. Sex can feel new again after that time. These positions give you ways to get close at a comfortable pace. Some let you look at each other. Others let you hold on tight. Start with what feels familiar. Take time to get used to each other again. Talk about what feels good as you go. The goal is to enjoy being physical together without pressure.
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Lie on your back with your partner on top facing you. Wrap your legs around their body or keep them on the bed. This position allows you to maintain eye contact and kiss. Move together at a pace that feels comfortable.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under your hips to adjust the angle and add comfort during the movement.
Spicy Twist
Hold their face with both hands and keep eye contact the whole time.
Action
Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. Your partner enters from behind while you stay curled together. This position keeps your bodies touching along their length. It works for a relaxed pace.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees slightly to make entry easier and control the depth.
Spicy Twist
Reach your hand back to touch their leg or hip as you move.
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Action
Lie on your sides facing one another. Lift one leg over your partner's hip for entry. This position lets you kiss and see each other clearly. Move with small motions.
Pro-Tip
Hold onto their shoulder to pull your bodies closer together.
Spicy Twist
Kiss their neck and face the entire time you are together.
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Final Tip
These positions give you options when you reunite. Try one or two that feel right for the night. Adjust them based on what your bodies need after the time apart. The point is to enjoy each other again.
Common Questions
Begin with kissing and touching for a while. Choose a position that lets you move slowly and stop if needed. Talk to your partner about what feels good.
Ones where you can see each other's faces work well. Missionary and face to face sit let you look at one another and stay close.
Change positions before you get too close to the end. Take breaks to kiss and touch. Move slowly and pay attention to each other.
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